No one really knows why something happens but God does and you have to trust God that He will bring you back when something happens that makes you morn.
JOB 1:1 There was a man in the land of Uz, whose name was Job; and that man was perfect and upright, and one that feared God, and eschewed evil.
Christ asks us to go to church, fellowship and praise the Lord. When you have that church where you can talk and live life you will see why the Lord asks that of us.
JOB 42:1 Then Job answered the LORD, and said, 2 I know that thou canst do every thing , and that no thought can be withholden from thee. 3 Who is he that hideth counsel without knowledge? therefore have I uttered that I understood not; things too wonderful for me, which I knew not.
There is no such thing as perfect churches were everyone does everything right so don�t expect one. There is a church were everyone try's to do their best.
MATTHEW 16:18 And I say also unto thee, That thou art Peter, and upon this rock I will build my church; and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it.
Church is where you learn of God and how to live life. Christ loves you so you don�t need to let anything get you down God will give you freedom.
HEBREWS 4:1 Let us therefore fear, lest, a promise being left [us] of entering into his rest, any of you should seem to come short of it. 2 For unto us was the gospel preached, as well as unto them: but the word preached did not profit them, not being mixed with faith in them that heard it .
It doesn't profit you unless you have that faith in God that you will get through whatever misery that you are going through. He gives you that season to get over what is happening. Christ won�t let you take it on by yourself. You don�t need to look for a reason for it to happen. God may be the only one who will ever know.
Here is a sample prayer if you're not saved today ask God for salvation in Jesus Christ's Name. Saying this prayer is a way to declare to God that you are relying on Christ for your salvation.
The words themselves will not save you. Only faith "full belief" in Jesus Christ can provide salvation.
�Dear Heavenly father I know that I have sinned against you and am deserving of punishment. But Christ took the punishment that I deserve, so that through faith in Him I could be forgiven?"
"Jesus Christ, with your help I place my trust in you for salvation, and I ask that you will forgive me of my sins. I thank you for your wonderful grace and forgiveness.�
Go tell a Christian church you have asked Christ for salvation and go to Sunday school you'll find fellowship and the study of the bible to be a great help as you grow as a Christian.