Paul reminds us that God's kingdom is not about arguing and bickering over earthly stuff but about "righteousness and peace and joy" Rom. 14:17. Living by God's right standards, living to be a peacemaker, and living to be a source of joy
The world gets a glimpse of God when our relationships are what kingdom life is all about. And, when we live like this, our lives please God and bless others (v.18). Sounds like the kind
of neighborhood anyone would love to live in.
If you're part of the kingdom of God, it will make a difference in how you live and what you are talking about. Hopefully you are lifting up Jesus Christ, who is the Only savior and God's Only Son, who died on the cross for our sins and rose again,that we might have life and have it more abundantly.