Author	Thread: dear folks,
Admin	dear folks, Posted : 25 Mar, 2010 01:49 PM dear folks, as most of you all know i made a promise long ago to help look out after the forums and try to keep things civil here.... as long as i was wanted by the admin.. ive been called a honorary moderator and a cdff certified senior citizen here,, by the admin here.. and i took that as an honor and did the very best i could , and the best i could to be fair to everyone here and not partial to anyone when breaking the rules laid out here by insulting others ,name calling ect... but yet to speak up and ask folks to please stop that behavior.. and if they didnt finally listen then to report them to the admin.. and theyd come and say a little summin to em and then most times itd stop.. if not then they were banned.. i took alot of abuse from some of those who didnt like bein asked to behave.. but i didnt mind as i was performing a service and bein a servant .. . but most folks knew theyd done wrong and apologized and then did better.. and my goodness very few folks have needed speakin to at all and those two kinds of people you can grow a good christian site with.. not those who continueally insult others and name call ect.. now as most of you all prolly know i was basically called unsaved and not of GOD here the other day.. and instead of sayin what was on my mind and that was youre a bald faced liar.. i tried to handle it nicely and asked the man to stop.. over and over again to stop implyin that.. then i reported him.. just like i was sposed to do when folks wouldnt finally listen ... and yes folks this insult even got to me... i thought just cause we disagree or believe different than others here ,we cant have folks calling folks unsaved ,heretics,your church is a harlot ect ect .. as it is written in the sites rules posted on the main forum page here.. the reply i got back from my report was basically i dont have time for this and we cant back you up every single time.. now folks, i never spoke to someone without a reason...but without their backup i cant do the job.. and so i explained to them that if they didnt back me and allowed this kind of behavior then my promise had been fulfilled .. i did what i promised till i was not wanted anymore.. so i will not be speaking to anyone for doin or speakin any way they wish from now on.. i may not even be on the forums here because i dont think i wanna be a part of a place that allows such to go on as insults and name callin etc ect.. it dont look or feel much like a christian site with all that goin on.. though i wanna say there are some wonderful christian people here and i love all of ya.. and it was a honor and a pleasure lookin out for ya and knowing you.. one last word of advice folks,, when someone has had to use two different profile names ... its usually for a reason.. so keep that in mind when dealing with them.. ole cattle Post Reply
View Profile History	dear folks, Posted : 25 Mar, 2010 02:20 PM cattle, you have to remember who the source is of all this division... We have your back, I dont think any of us on here have a problem with sticking up for each other. We all appreciate you coming to our rescue because seriously some individuals are downright accusive and condemning. We all know that is not from the Lord. Before you make any decisions, consider the source which is the father of lies, accuser of the brethren and so on. OUr enemy the devil, he hates you, he hates people that bring peace, he wants this place to be a free for all, for the people he can control. He wants others to feel condemnation and false doctrine to be displayed here. There are alot of strange things going on here lately and the origin of some of these posts...well you know where they come from but on the other hand, there are many that you encourage Cattle, you have a shepherds heart and we've all been touched by it. and of course God is greater and you win! be encouraged!!!! Blessings, Riveroflife Post Reply
stormcountry33 View Profile History	dear folks, Posted : 25 Mar, 2010 02:30 PM Cattle I agree with riveroflife! You have made a huge difference in my life through this site by things you have and stances you have taken! You truly are a man of God even though this is a dating site, I think it is soooo much more for many of us. I look forward to reading and posting on the forums and it would not be the same without your insight on here!!! Garret made a good point the other day. If we disagree with someone, adress it onces and then move on. If someone doesn't care for your thoughts, don't let them win!! Don't let them get to you. Pray for them but don't stay in the arugment. You mean a lot to a lot of us here Cattle!! Please stick around!! Love in Christ!! -Neal Post Reply
View Profile History	dear folks, Posted : 25 Mar, 2010 03:41 PM Cattle, if you're leavin, I'm leavin too! Without structure there's chaos and without love there's hate. No good comes out of chaos and hate. If the Admin will not enforce structure, this isn't really a Christian site and I don't want to be a part of it. There are many many wonderful people here! But a few bad eggs will ruin the batch. Especially if that includes Admin. Does anyone know of any good Christian sites? With love, T Post Reply
View Profile History	dear folks, Posted : 25 Mar, 2010 04:16 PM dear folks, thank you for your too kind words.. but any glory and goodness let it all be to GOD and not me.. i dont think the admin is bad folks, thats not what i was sayin.. they have alot on their plates. but if this behavior is allowed then this place will go from what i concider the best forums ive ever been on till recently to just like all the rest.. all name calling and insultin , not just discussions anymore.. itll become a back and forth name calling... not a pretty picture.. oh and edw i didnt see your post till after id posted on the other topic.. i aint goin back there so hope youll see my thanks to you as well for your too kind words.. may any and all glory be to GOD folks. ole cattle Post Reply
View Profile History	dear folks, Posted : 25 Mar, 2010 04:20 PM Hey Yall...kinda on the same page here... :-{ Luv ya all...xo Post Reply
View Profile History	dear folks, Posted : 25 Mar, 2010 04:37 PM Hey you all,do not leave yet ok. I want to here from some of you guys. This is for you Ole,cattle we all know I had some problems getting along with a certain woman. You know who.Yes, she tripped my trigger. When I first came on this site back in August you Ole'Cattle stuck up for me.Stay my friend.Even if it is in just the boy-girl advice area. We can choose not to discuss the differences of opinions with a certain person. However. should you leave please write me first.As, I wish to give you my email address.Dennis Post Reply
pluc View Profile History	dear folks, Posted : 25 Mar, 2010 04:44 PM Ok for all who read this I know you know that I have had a few words with cattle myself over insulting words. I did not think I was insulting anyone although cattle told me I was. I have no beef with cattle at all. This person he is referring to was not me. Cattle kindly sent me a private message explaining what he meant and that was it. So cattle I hope you stay around to. I look forward to joking around with you and making you laugh while trying to keep a stern face. Love you man. Be led by the spirit not those that hate. Oh yeah I thought about getting off also because the dating thing was not working for me here, but I have learned so much from all of you and 1babygirl has got under my skin like a little sister. Edw has my back while making me roll over . I could not bring myself to deactivate my account. Cattle we love you and do not wnat to see you go. Post Reply
View Profile History	dear folks, Posted : 25 Mar, 2010 04:46 PM ditto for me too Post Reply
View Profile History	dear folks, Posted : 25 Mar, 2010 05:37 PM To ole cattle, the vote is unanimous, you must stay. To Pluc, to hear you admit I've gotten under your skin has absolutely made my night and done my heart good. And one more thing that us little sisters do.......:nahnah: Post Reply
View Profile History	dear folks, Posted : 25 Mar, 2010 06:08 PM gosh cattle..... don't go.... maybe vacation. but don't quit. Post Reply

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