Author Thread: Does a womens lack of desire to have kids mean she goes against Gods willl?
Melissam871

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Does a womens lack of desire to have kids mean she goes against Gods willl?
Posted : 23 Oct, 2016 05:33 AM

Hi Everyone



I apologise if this question is in the wrong category. I was wondering if i could get some opinions. i am a woman, but i have never desired to have children of my own. I like kids, as have taught them in Sunday school. I just have never wanted any and are not maternal, so would not feel confident as a mother. I know the bible says that we should multiply and be fruitful, and that women should provide for their families as that is their role, therefore it worries me that i am not fulfilling my role as a female christian. However i also know it would be wrong of me as human to go along with having a child, knowing i never wanted one. I am worried that i am sinning against God in my desires and decision not to have children.

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Posted : 25 Oct, 2016 08:36 AM

The Apostle Paul says that we do not have to marry. But if you burn in desire get married to prevent sin. It is your free choice to get married and have kids.

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Posted : 25 Oct, 2016 10:16 AM

Hey, thank you for you post, that really helps!



Melissa

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Posted : 3 Nov, 2016 09:02 AM

First, I think you should get married before thinking about having a child. Having a child you are helping Heavenly Father [God] carrying out His plan. I did not want any children, but I have birth 7 of them....sometimes they make me laugh, other times they make me cry and few times I want to dig a hole and put them in....Children are the heritage of God. (Psalm 127: 3) Family is the central plan of God and that is why He require for us to be born into a family. THE FAMILY is ordained of God. Marriage between man and woman is essential to His eternal plan. Children are entitled to birth within the bonds of matrimony, and to be reared by a father and a mother who honor marital vows with complete fidelity. Happiness in family life is most likely to be achieved when founded upon the teachings of the Lord Jesus Christ. Successful marriages and families are established and maintained on principles of faith, prayer, repentance, forgiveness, respect, love, compassion, work, and wholesome recreational activities. By divine design, fathers are to preside over their families in love and righteousness and are responsible to provide the necessities of life and protection for their families. Mothers are primarily responsible for the nurture of their children. In these sacred responsibilities, fathers and mothers are obligated to help one another as equal partners. Disability, death, or other circumstances may necessitate individual adaptation. Extended families should lend support when needed.

I invite you to pray and ask Father in the name of Jesus Christ for wisdom and strength......

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Melissam871

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Posted : 3 Nov, 2016 03:26 PM

Hello. Thanks dear sister for your comments. I need to understand where God stands on the whole family unit before I would look to marry someone.



God bless

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Posted : 3 Nov, 2016 04:20 PM

To JM

May i say that you do not understand who GOD Almighty is, notr do you seem to understand that He does not need your help, or the help of any person as He is Omnipotent, Omniscient and Omnipresent.

We are the ones which needs His help, and i need more then everyone in this life.



GOD Almightys plan for each person is the cross, not marriage or children. If people do not believe then they are condemned, not if the do not marry or do not have children.

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Posted : 13 Nov, 2016 04:05 PM

Melissa

Family is very important to God.

We do not fully understand, but we will in the next life.

From the scriptures we learn that there are three kingdoms of glory in heaven. The Apostle Paul mentioned that he knew a man who was �caught up to the third heaven� (2 Corinthians 12:2). Paul named two of the kingdoms in heaven: the celestial and the terrestrial (see 1 Corinthians 15:40�42). The celestial is the highest, and the terrestrial is second. Through latter-day revelation we learn that the third kingdom is the telestial kingdom (see D&C 76:81). We also learn that there are three heavens or degrees within the celestial kingdom (see D&C 131:1).

Exaltation is eternal life, the kind of life God lives. He lives in great glory. He is perfect. He possesses all knowledge and all wisdom. He is the Father of spirit children. He is a creator. We can become like our Heavenly Father. This is exaltation.

If we prove faithful to the Lord, we will live in the highest degree of the celestial kingdom of heaven. We will become exalted, to live with our Heavenly Father in eternal families. Exaltation is the greatest gift that Heavenly Father can give His children (see D&C 14:7).

Blessings of Exaltation

Imagine what joy each of us will have when we return to our Heavenly Father if we can say: �Father, I lived according to Thy will. I have been faithful and have kept Thy commandments. I am happy to be home again.� Then we will hear Him say, �Well done � ; thou hast been faithful over a few things, I will make thee ruler over many things: enter thou into the joy of thy lord� (Matthew 25:23).

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Posted : 13 Nov, 2016 04:12 PM

Hello

I do know who God is and I am receiving increase knowledge which I would like to share with you.

We are all part of God's plan.

And when we came to earth we have made special covenant with God and one of them is to help all the spirit children in Heaven come to earth to received a physical bodies as us....

So every time we have a child we help a spirit to come to earth and to received mortal life as we do.....

This is God's plan...

So I do understand what you are saying but this is not mankind plan but God's plan...

I invite you to read in the Bible>>>>>James 1:56 and apply the instruction??????

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Posted : 14 Nov, 2016 04:12 PM

Hi Melissa,

JMHonesty is a practucing Mormon D&C stands for the 'Doctrines and covenants' books of the Mormon religion.



I have read their books, The oearl of great price and i had their interlinear but i do not know what happened to it.

According.to their beliefs they are not believers in Messiah Yeshua.



Shalom

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JMhonestydate

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Posted : 16 Nov, 2016 04:01 PM

Hello Mister

I am a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints.

I have a strong testimony of the "Plan of Salvation"

I would love to share what is require of us.

I am glad you understand some of our books.

Why are you telling this young woman your belief...

I hope she will pray and ask God for her guidance....

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Posted : 16 Nov, 2016 04:11 PM

George

I have read your profile and see your name.

I see you live in USA.

After Jesus resurrected he came to America and He appointed 12 Apostle to preach the doctrine that I have today.

9 of these Apostles desire to died at the age of 72 and join Jesus in His Kingdom.

The other 3 Apostles desire to remain on the earth to teach the doctrine of Jesus Christ to the entire world.

They will not taste death.

They will not taste sorrow.

They will not have pain.

They will remain until Jesus return to cleanse this earth.

For your sake I hope you ask God if what I said here is true and repent before it is too late.

I am a member of Jesus Christ church that Jesus himself restore in 1800 centuries....

I hope you have faith in Jesus and accept His doctrine .....

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