Author	Thread: Why it is important to have a Christian GF/BF or spouse?
Admin	Why it is important to have a Christian GF/BF or spouse? Posted : 7 Sep, 2007 12:44 PM :angel: When 2 people are not equally yoke, problems arise and it becomes a bigger gap in communication as the years go by. I know now that without God in the midst of a relationship, nothing comes good. Everything comes from God and ends with God. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why it is important to have a Christian GF/BF or spouse? Posted : 7 Sep, 2007 10:23 PM I can speak from experience, marrying an unbeliever will be that worst thing that you ever do. A lot of people get into these relationships thinking that the other person is nice and that they will be able to change them. Don't count on it. No matter how "nice" the unbeliever is they are still not serving the Lord. This will only lead to problems later on. I have never known anyone in this situation to make it. They will either end up deserting the God that loves them or they will end up divorced. Anyone reading this and considering getting involved with someone who is not saved, DON'T DO IT!!!! Your whole life depends upon it. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why it is important to have a Christian GF/BF or spouse? Posted : 8 Sep, 2007 04:30 AM It is vital that you be not unequally yolked,darkness and light don't mix.Like the previous posts have said, if you decide to be one flesh with an unbeliever,you will be setting yourself up for failure and ultimate pain and disaster.Trust me ,it is a very painful lesson to learn....... Post Reply
View Profile History	Why it is important to have a Christian GF/BF or spouse? Posted : 8 Sep, 2007 04:41 AM Thank you Freeman, I hope that we can convince our Christian brothers and sisters to use this site to learn about the value of being in a relationship with our Lord first and foremost, praying for the discernment of the holy spirit, making sure that He is in the midst of things. We really cannot serve 2 masters at one time. Godbless! Post Reply
View Profile History	Why it is important to have a Christian GF/BF or spouse? Posted : 8 Sep, 2007 04:45 AM Thank you Angels6. Let's hope that our Christian Brothers and Sisters use this site wisely by daily commune and prayer to the Lord. He alone can direct our life, He has the plan and the blueprint for it. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why it is important to have a Christian GF/BF or spouse? Posted : 8 Sep, 2007 03:43 PM It's important because the Lord said too, and He knows the end from the beginning! Amen! I have seen it play out in the lives of people I know and love. It's like deciding to swim a swift stream, but first you tie a millstone about your neck and then you throw yourself in. It's going to pull you down and keep you from your goal, if it doesn't kill you or cripple you outright. Say like, going to church, reading your Bible, living for the Lord in your daily life, fellowshipping with Him, and witnessing to others! But I think most people fall for it because they are lonely, and they get fearful that they'll always be lonely and that they'll never meet that person they are REALLY looking for, the one that God means for them to have, so they take it into their own hands and settle for somebody in some area of standard or other, which is never good. First, you didn't trust God to love you and take care of you like he said he would in his word. Two, you disobeyed his commands. He said: be ye not unequally yoked together (2 Cor 6:14); can two walk together execpt they be agreed (Amos 3:3); love not the world neither the things that are in the world (1John 2:15) and many other fine verses! Three, you think you know more than God, who knows everything! Four, you just didn't want to wait any longer upon the Lord! I do understand the temptation, even found myself leaning the wrong way, just reading profiles on various websites. But I'm grateful the Lord was there and he patiently pointed out the pitfalls to me. Just keep your eyes on Jesus, and make up your mind that even if it means being single forever, you're going to do it the Lord's way! Oh, and just remember the Lord could come at anytime, so you might not have to wait all that long anyway! :winksmile: Post Reply
View Profile History	Why it is important to have a Christian GF/BF or spouse? Posted : 9 Sep, 2007 07:03 PM I can speak from experience that an unyoked marriage doesn't work. You can't "expect" someone to love the Lord just because you do. You can't expect their hearts to be filled with joy over Gods creations or to see His works in action. Joy, peace, trust, faith... are not present if God isn't present in someones heart. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why it is important to have a Christian GF/BF or spouse? Posted : 13 Sep, 2007 06:11 PM Now here's a thought. Most of us have probably read the verse that tells us not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers. But there are those who go to church, yet have not been born again. That's why it's important I believe to be able to know if a person has the fruit of the Spirit or not. :waving: Post Reply
light View Profile History	Why it is important to have a Christian GF/BF or spouse? Posted : 20 Sep, 2007 10:38 PM IT is important to do it GODS way and not ours , because if you think by holding on to hold on is what is going to get you the husband that GOD has called for you also to get the wife of your dreams ,because what GOD has put together let no man put us under the key word is what GOD has put together cause when we try we mess up that is why the DIVORCE rate is high just because all your friend are getting married doesnt mean you have to unless your have read the players manual which is the sword of the spirit which is the WORD OF GOD Post Reply
View Profile History	Why it is important to have a Christian GF/BF or spouse? Posted : 25 Sep, 2007 05:23 PM The word of God say that we are to be on one accord with our husband, but let me say this, every one that go to church is not save and it is a lot of christian that are save but still do not no how to be a spouse. Some of us that are in Christ have real bad marriage. And what look good on the out side does not mean it is good in the in side. Then one my say, He was not sent by God, the word say we are to be patience and wait to God send our husband. Well i know mean that have been praying for years and yet not receive there spouse. And i know that ever thing is in God time, But is there a way to no when is it your time in God time..... I would have to ask a question ? I don't believe that every Christian man in a church is so faith. I have had to tell some that are in authority to go away and that they were out of line. I know some that has falling by the wast side because of it. But yet we paint Christian as a righteous person and we are night all so righteous. Some of the people in the world are much better thing those that are save i found out for my self.I think we look at the church building and then people in the in side of it in stead of searching the inside of the person soul. because the true church and sprite is in the inside of them and not the building. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why it is important to have a Christian GF/BF or spouse? Posted : 1 Oct, 2007 07:21 PM You got it right, girl, you have it tight. I like the way you think, like you have been meditating upon it a long time. The good book says that older women are to be models for the young, and I can see you have it straight and can show it to them. Hey, great job, gal. Keep truckin. Post Reply

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