Author	Thread: Is concept of a soul mate biblical ?
Moonlight7 View Profile History	Is concept of a soul mate biblical ? Posted : 30 Dec, 2022 11:36 AM Is there such a thing as soul mates? The common idea of a “soul mate” is that for every person, there is another person who is a “perfect fit,” and if you marry anyone other than this soul mate, you will never be happy. Is this concept of a soul mate biblical? No, it is not. The soul mate concept is often used as an excuse for divorce. People who are unhappy in their marriage sometimes claim that they did not marry their soul mate and therefore should divorce and begin the search for their true soul mate. This is nothing more than an excuse, a blatantly unbiblical excuse. If you are married, the person you are married to is your soul mate. Mark 10:7-9 declares, “A man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh. So they are no longer two, but one. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate.” A husband and wife are “united,” “one flesh,” “no longer two, but one,” and “joined together,” i.e., soul mates. A marriage may not be as unified and joyous as a couple wishes it to be. A husband and wife may not have the physical, emotional, and spiritual unity that they desire. But even in this instance, the husband and wife are still soul mates. A couple in such a situation needs to work on developing true “soul mate” intimacy. By obeying what the Bible teaches about marriage (Ephesians 5:22-33), a couple can develop the intimacy, love, and commitment that being “one flesh” soul mates entails. If you are married, you are married to your soul mate. No matter how disharmonious a marriage is, God can bring healing, forgiveness, restoration, and true marital love and harmony. Is it possible to marry the wrong person? If we give ourselves to God and seek His guidance, He promises to direct us: “Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him and he will make your paths straight” (Proverbs 3:5-6). The implication of Proverbs 3:5-6 is that if you are not trusting in the Lord with all your heart, and are leaning on your own understanding, you can go the wrong direction. Yes, it is possible, in a time of disobedience and lack of close fellowship with God, to marry someone whom He did not desire you to marry. Even in such an instance, though, God is sovereign and in control. Even if a marriage was not God’s desire, it is still within His sovereign will and plan. God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16), and “marrying the wrong person” is never presented in the Bible as grounds for divorce. The claim “I married the wrong person and will never be happy unless I find my true soul mate” is unbiblical in two respects. First, it is a claim that your wrong decision has overridden God’s will and destroyed His plan. Second, it is a claim that God is not capable of making a struggling marriage happy, unified, and successful. Nothing we do can disrupt God’s sovereign will. God can take any two people, no matter how mismatched, and mold them into two people who are perfect for each other. If we maintain close fellowship with God, He will lead us and guide us. If a person is walking with the Lord and truly seeking His will, God will lead that person to the spouse He intends. God will lead us to our “soul mate” if we submit to Him and follow Him. However, being soul mates is both a position and a practice. A husband and wife are soul mates in that they are “one flesh,” spiritually, physically, and emotionally united to each other. In practice, though, there is a process of taking what a couple is, soul mates, and making that a day-by-day reality. True soul mate oneness is only possible by implementing the biblical pattern of marriage. Post Reply
Moonlight7 View Profile History	Is concept of a soul mate biblical ? Posted : 30 Dec, 2022 11:39 AM " Note" Some people Never marry! Whatever reasons! Number One...... you have to be asked ! Post Reply
Moonlight7 View Profile History	Is concept of a soul mate biblical ? Posted : 30 Dec, 2022 03:40 PM Or either you have to " except" a marriage proposal. Post Reply
BOANDERS^ View Profile History	Is concept of a soul mate biblical ? Posted : 14 Jan, 2023 07:57 AM According to a heathen myth the humans has been split in one upper part the man, and a lower part the woman, and that was made as an excuse for men to rule over women. There is no soul-mate-myth in the bible, instead it is said that if man and a woman (at free will) have intercourse they become one flesh. (16 Don’t you know that anyone joined to a prostitute is one body with her? For Scripture says: “The two will become one flesh”. 1 Cor. 6:16). (I would not mind to let a young woman rule over me (in a nice way) as long as she had respect for my conscience.) Post Reply
Moonlight7 View Profile History	Is concept of a soul mate biblical ? Posted : 14 Jan, 2023 09:32 AM That is a hestgrn myth, humans are not cut in half . Every woman that has sex with a Man is not a prostitute, she doesn't become one. If that were the case thousands of people would be One . Post Reply
BOANDERS^ View Profile History	Is concept of a soul mate biblical ? Posted : 14 Jan, 2023 10:04 AM You are right Post Reply
BOANDERS^ View Profile History	Is concept of a soul mate biblical ? Posted : 14 Jan, 2023 11:14 AM You are right, nevertheless, the question of to whom one is married, is not always unproblematic. … In the past it happened, for example, that married soldiers were wrongly reported home as dead, the widow remarried in good faith but after a few years the soldier came home alive. Who was she married to? … It also happened (at least in medieval England) that a couple got married in public (for example in a pub) without it being registered, and that the father forced the woman to marry another man (the woman complained and the Catholic Church gave the woman the right and her father wrong). ... In today´s Sweden you can be married according to one law and not according to another (this I know by personal experience). Post Reply
Moonlight7 View Profile History	Is concept of a soul mate biblical ? Posted : 7 Feb, 2023 04:47 PM " there a slot of Heathen myths " I follow the Bible truths. Post Reply
Moonlight7 View Profile History	Is concept of a soul mate biblical ? Posted : 7 Feb, 2023 04:51 PM A man is declared legally dead after missing 7 yrs I think. In USA If you don't have a Legal marriage license, you are just living together. Many older people never married but have lived together with a partner. Many also have grown children. Post Reply
Moonlight7 View Profile History	Is concept of a soul mate biblical ? Posted : 7 Feb, 2023 04:53 PM " there's a lot of Heathen myths" Corrected Non christian people don't honor Gods commandments. It obvious by Man's Lifestyles . Post Reply