Thread: Would You Date/Marry A Transformed Homosexual?...
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Would You Date/Marry A Transformed Homosexual?...
Posted : 29 Jan, 2009 07:57 PM
We know that with God ALL things are possible. There are many men and women who have lived the lie of the devi for many years. Some believing that they were born homosexuals, some believing they were trapped in a man's body when they were SUPPOSED to have women. There are some women who believe that they are/were trapped in a woman's body, when they were/are really men.
There are those who have gotten sex changes, only to find out it was a grievious mistake, and some have tried to redo/reverse the mistake, but have found that it has cost them emotionally and mentally more than it was worth in the first place, trying to change the order of God.
God tells us in His word(Romans chapter 1), that homosexuality is a sin! It is an abomination before Him! And no person who practice such sexual immoral sin of homosexuality will enter into His kingdom, which is His home/heaven, so He has a right to say who can live there with Him and who can't.
There are many men and women who are coming to realize that they have been deceived by the devil's lie, and are being truly transformed back to their original state of moral beings, and are receiving God's Word as truth and turning their lives over to the Lord Jesus Christ. They are living new life-styles as the men/males and women/females God so created them to be in the beginning. Some are even finding godly women and men to marry and have children.
Ted Haggard has confessed his homosexuality behavior, and with the coming out of a young man who states that he had an affair with Haggard while he was pastor of his church in Colorado spring. Haggard admits it is true, but he has now realized his sins, repented and states that he will no longer deny that he has been involved with men during his marriage, and as pastor of his church from which he was fired/resigned. His wife is standing by him, but as you know she by the Word of God, in scripture she can divorce him and start a new life for herself... this is a very hard responsibility on her, so love has to play a very big part in her staying.
(1) Would you date or marry a transformed homosexual?
OR
(2) If your wife or husband admits and confesses that he/she has deceived you for years about his/her sexuality... Would you continue to stay in the marriage?
OR
(3) If you were dating a man or woman and were engaged to be married, and he/she told you of his/her homosexual life-style before begin "born again". Would you proceed with the wedding?
I would have to say yes to all three as well. I am not in the habit of ranking sins. The way i see it, if God has forgiven them who am I to say that isn't enough? Besides, if I pick and choose which sins to forgive them, which sins of mine will they not forgive me? Love is no respecter of persons.
And while the 2nd one would be the most difficult, of course, as long as they were repentant I would want to work through it. I can't imagine how painful it would be, but I would want reconciliation more than anything.
The tot of a man prefering another man is indeed repulsive but if he has clearly indicated dat he has repented and changed for the better, who r we 2 judge ? So I think I would b really hesitant 2 date a transformed homosexual but cld consider it.
Years ago, I attended a church sermon conducted by Sy Rogers. Some of our American brothers n sisters in Christ may know him. Think he came from a troubled home n dat caused him to participate in cross-dressing. Can't remember if he's a homosexual but I think he nearly changed sex or did something drastic along those lines. But Christ spoke to him n stopped him. Later on, he married n is now a proud father. His wife has accepted him, taking Christ s an example. So maybe we can all emulate her.
