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twistann

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WHY DO HURT PEOPLE HURT PEOPLE?
Posted : 29 Mar, 2011 08:24 AM

AFTER YOU SHARED YOUR LIFE WITH THE SEPARATED MAN WHO WAS DUMPED BY HIS WIFE, NOW, IT WAS ME WHO HAD BEEN DUMPED BY HIM AFTER ALL WHAT I DID FOR HIM, I PULLED HIM UP, BUT HE LET ME DOWN AND IT AIN'T EASY....BUT I KNOW GOD HAS ITS OWN REASON ABOVE ALL THE PAINFUL MEMORIES I HAD WITH HIM.....

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WHY DO HURT PEOPLE HURT PEOPLE?
Posted : 29 Mar, 2011 09:55 PM

Because they lack self-control.

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WHY DO HURT PEOPLE HURT PEOPLE?
Posted : 31 Mar, 2011 06:21 PM

Maybe because he still did not forget his past.

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riveroflife1

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WHY DO HURT PEOPLE HURT PEOPLE?
Posted : 1 Apr, 2011 09:12 PM

hurting people need to go through healing before they get involved with someone new.

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WHY DO HURT PEOPLE HURT PEOPLE?
Posted : 9 Apr, 2011 12:18 PM

I agree with these responses. Alot of hurt people don't deal with the pain, they don't try and heal they just move on to the next person. Which continues to make things worse.

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J2pou

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WHY DO HURT PEOPLE HURT PEOPLE?
Posted : 9 May, 2011 12:31 AM

why do Some people use other peoples weaknesses to make themselves feel better about themselves.

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WHY DO HURT PEOPLE HURT PEOPLE?
Posted : 11 May, 2011 10:00 PM

i wish i knew if u find out let me know

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WHY DO HURT PEOPLE HURT PEOPLE?
Posted : 12 May, 2011 09:56 AM

I know, because when a person is hurt, the pain is so bad that you have to get it out in one or another way, and then it is a way to get it out, to put the pain on someone else......

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WHY DO HURT PEOPLE HURT PEOPLE?
Posted : 20 May, 2011 01:09 PM

In order to answer such a question,we need to know how this person is hurt in the first place.Each situation, I think, could be different from another. Does this person seek to get revenge based on his prior experience? Does this person seek pleasure while hurting his partner? Maybe this person doesn't know the difference between hurting someone and being able to take this agony out from him through verbal or physical treat or doesn't know the difference between good and bad and thinks that's the way all relationships should end or be.

The second mistake, I think, is from not dealing with this hurt feelings or souls from the first place after knowing what happened. Maybe it could be a ruse from that person in order to get the affection much needed from a past bad experience with his mother, thus making his or her partner a surrogate mother to a wounded puppy. After draining all the affection from the partner, they move on to a next VICTIM. I'm saying victim because that's how they become in the eyes of the perpetrator. Confronted with their fears and hurt feelings, could be the way in rebuilding their own character.

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WHY DO HURT PEOPLE HURT PEOPLE?
Posted : 30 Jun, 2011 07:52 AM

Because they want to protect themselves.

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