Author	Thread: what would you prefer and choose?
sweetschatz View Profile History	what would you prefer and choose? Posted : 23 Feb, 2011 10:20 PM The woman who took you for granted for 7 years that you've been courting her. when your in a relationship,she suddenly realized that you're worth it.after all she still wants you back. or The woman who chose to love and accept you even you're not exactly her ideal man. in short whatever shortcomings that came out she still chose to stick with you and take care of you. but the thing is you've been wanting the first woman to be with, when she came back you're currently in a relationship with the 2nd woman. if you're in the same situation,what would you choose and why? Post Reply
View Profile History	what would you prefer and choose? Posted : 28 Feb, 2011 10:06 PM i'd prefer a woman who'll accept me for who i am and not what she wants me to be. chris Post Reply
View Profile History	what would you prefer and choose? Posted : 28 Feb, 2011 10:38 PM I'd let 'em fight over me and then pick somebody else more stable.:ROFL: Just kidding:ROFL: Post Reply
View Profile History	what would you prefer and choose? Posted : 28 Feb, 2011 10:46 PM That's a tough predicament. I know what it's like to be taken for granted and its no fun, and I wouldn't want to be with somebody who didn't think of me as her ideal mate, so... six in one and half a dozen in the other.... Neither choice would be ideal. Post Reply
View Profile History	what would you prefer and choose? Posted : 28 Feb, 2011 11:45 PM Are you IN LOVE with one of them? Both of them? _____________________________ Do whatever your heart tells you to' Post Reply
paschen81 View Profile History	what would you prefer and choose? Posted : 1 Mar, 2011 06:19 PM sounds to me like neither choice would be ideal the first is no good because the commitment only flows one way... from the guy to the girl the second one also sounds no good as the commitment still only truly flows one way... from the girl to the guy. The guy obviously isn't over the first girl and therefore hasn't really committed to the second girl and in a way is no better than the girl he's still "hooked" on as he is only seemingly using the second girl so he wont be alone. I'd think the guy needs to be alone outside of any relationship for a while and evaulate himself. Of course... I could be reading more into the situation... but then again... maybe not. Post Reply
View Profile History	what would you prefer and choose? Posted : 1 Mar, 2011 07:52 PM "In a relationship" So.... not married? Still, I know people who use others. Lead them on, then toss them aside. Take them for granted, promise everything... and then exit. The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. Lets remember there is another side of the fence.... and the other side in this situation. Things between people are seldom cut and dried. Post Reply
sweetschatz View Profile History	what would you prefer and choose? Posted : 8 Mar, 2011 10:23 PM wow, thank you for all the opinion and comment really appreciated it. by the way the guy just got married and left the 2nd girl. he chosed to love the first one because he suddenly realized that it was not love in the second girl. second girl was so suprised about that, but dont worry she's moving on happily. because God saved her to another failure marriage maybe. Post Reply
View Profile History	what would you prefer and choose? Posted : 5 Apr, 2011 03:43 PM Lets hope he made the right decision. The heart often makes the wrong one, I probably wouldn't have gone back to the first one. I certainly wouldn't have married her without some solid proof she would change her ways in the long term. If the second girl was nice I'd have stuck with her, after a while you forget about your dead dog when you get a new puppy. Out of sight, out of mind. Post Reply
Chivalry777 View Profile History	what would you prefer and choose? Posted : 21 Jun, 2011 03:05 AM I'm not sure I would I would "chose" either one. But number 2 sounds like a nicer person. Hard to tell. Generally sounds like a situation you would like to avoid : ) Post Reply
Chivalry777 View Profile History	what would you prefer and choose? Posted : 21 Jun, 2011 03:09 AM Marcus : "After a while you forget about your dead dog when you get a new puppy." :applause: Post Reply