Author	Thread: 21 years ago today
Admin	21 years ago today Posted : 11 Feb, 2011 03:03 AM I was getting ready to get married at 4:30 today. I was married 1 month shy of 17 years. I'm feeling really sad today. Not because I'm divorced but, because after having 2 children with someone and being the best wife I knew how to be, realizing his heart wasn't with me and I dont' think it ever was!! Post Reply
View Profile History	21 years ago today Posted : 11 Feb, 2011 10:51 AM Rose, I've never been married but I've experienced sadness as well as loss. I'm not sure what I can say to make you feel better. If I turn into a dog with sun-glasses on would ya smile? chevy Post Reply
View Profile History	21 years ago today Posted : 11 Feb, 2011 10:55 AM YES, I WOULD SMILE!! :glow: Bless your heart Chevy!! You are a good friend!! Post Reply
View Profile History	21 years ago today Posted : 11 Feb, 2011 03:34 PM We sometimes revisit the past in sadness on certain days for reasons unknown to us...We revisit the feelings...the questions...seeking...possibly resolution...Its ok to revisit the past for there can always be something to gain...but the past is gone and the future yet to be...so for now...just know...that you are loved and appreciated...Today... 21 years ago...I was 32 years old...homeless...living on the streets, in the parks, under freeways...thats in the past and gone and the future yet to be...xo Post Reply
View Profile History	21 years ago today Posted : 11 Feb, 2011 04:51 PM Your right Jude, your right the past is gone, and I wish the pain was too. We both have come a long way though, haven't we!! Thanks!! XO Post Reply
Ruth4 View Profile History	21 years ago today Posted : 11 Feb, 2011 07:12 PM Too funny! Dog with sunglasses would cheer anyone up! Post Reply
MyBoaz2011 View Profile History	21 years ago today Posted : 14 Feb, 2011 05:26 PM Hmmm, GG, it is human and natural to recall moments - especially moments and relationships of personal sentimental value to us (like marriages and love affairs). It is a reflection of our humanness - so don't feel ashamed or worried when it comes rushing back. Let the tears flow; let the sadness have its way. Pause, reflect, resolve to move forward. It is a healing process. And may the God of peace bruise the enemy under your feet in Jesus' name. You know one thing I also do when it becomes an obsession to get hooked to the past? I plead amnesia - in fact I literally tell the devil about my future. I don't mean to suppress recollection of moments, but I choose not to dwell there. God bless you, Sister! Post Reply
View Profile History	21 years ago today Posted : 14 Feb, 2011 11:07 PM Hugszzzzz to you, Godsgirl. ((( Post Reply
View Profile History	21 years ago today Posted : 22 Feb, 2011 04:05 PM I feel for you and understand why you were feeling so sad on this day, God's Girl ... you know how much I know how these feelings well up in your heart and hurt when you recall the way things used to be and the mistakes you've made, whether you've also enjoyed tims of blessing as well or not!!! Praise God that we can move on from our broken hearts and the memories that hurt so much, looking forward to the brighter future you are looking toward now, as you've shared in your answer to PreciousInHisSight's post!!! :yay::applause: Love, Steve Post Reply