It's been a little over a month since my man and I said goodbye to each other,but I'm still in love with him.The more I try to forget him the more I have thoughts of him ! What do I do to move past this ?
It is hard, I know. One of the things that have helped me is to pray. Ask God to help me get through. If I have to pray for one hour at a time ("God, help me get through this hour") then that is what I do. Or a day, or half a day -- whatever works. I talk about it with friends. I write my feelings down. And I find something to do that will keep me busy. God will heal. God knows. God loves you.
It is Real�it is Insidious�it is Debilitating! You don�t have to have been in Combat to experience PTSD. Any life event that Traumatizes your Soul will bring it about.
You cannot avoid your emotions. They are there and trying to ignore or mask them or �seal� them away is asking for more trouble. The only true remedy is Time and Talking and Crying and Laughing and Crying and Crying, but what really helps is Praying.
A man hurt you and whether you may like it or not�it is another Man that is going to be the One to help you get through this. Go sit in His Lap and tell Him how you feel�how much it hurts. How empty your Heart is and how much you need it filled again. Rest your head on His shoulder and just be quiet�real quiet and Listen.
My suggestion is to do this at least once a day. In time your Heart will Heal and your Soul will regain it�s Peace. Time and Talking�talking to Jesus and if you have someone that you trust and feel comfortable with�talk to them also.
I do understand hw u feel..Ive been experiencing such kind of pain..heartaches..broken into pieces...
Then i found myself...weaker...almost everyday ..days and nights......I began to ask for God's strenghts...i asked Him to comfort me..and send people to be my friends..Glad to knw HE answers me..
Psalm 147:3 God heals the brokenhearted and bandages the wounds..
My friend, whats more important is that...if someone didnt love us or leave us for a reason...God love us and never leave us..
Perhaps God allows us to feel those pains..heartaches...to mke us stronger, better and wiser..To love us more to God than anyone in this world..
Healing is a matter of time...but also a matter of great opportunities to understand God's purpose..to meet new people..meet someone to who really love and care for us..
Pray, pray and pray.....keep busy...get to knw more people...listen to their problems...u will be surprised to knw that ours experiences is less than what they had..
try to visit these places..eg hospitals...u will see people sick, and dying for physical pains..those people who are abandoned.....victims of injustices, poverty, unemployment..
In other words..look at the other side of life..
where people are less fortunate than us...
Well, im struggling, but i knw God is there with me comforting me..thru people who care and love me...those people who love me to be around with them..
Yes I am struggling too, and I know how you feel...
It's hard the "thinking" is the worse than the heartache itself!!
Well my heart is broken, and I really thought that the guy was the one Lord had for me :(
I am really cling to Jesus, and I really think by this point LORD has a second plan for me. If somebody fails to accept or accomplish GOD's will, the LORD always has second plan, because HE knew that the person would fail in first place....but HE make sure this person had the opportunity "encounter" Gods will and yet failed...
"GOD always gives HIS best to those who leave the choice to him"
So even in painful moments, just remember that HE know the plans HE has for your life, plans to give you future and hope" (jer. 29:11)
I want Gods will for my life, so I keep looking forward to that.
It's important to appreciate what we THOUGHT we had in each other, often may bear no relation to the reality. If the love was true and real, as it needs to be on both sides, then we would never have split up. We tend to fear losing the dream rather than the person. Try not to complicate things and accept if it's meant to be it will be and if not then walk away. There really are plenty more fish in the sea and one day, God willing, we will again find that love we so seek.
It's OK for things to fail, nothings perfect. It's important that we do learn from this as we move on, as we grieve. Look back in fondness but make sure your eyes are wide open and clear to see your future or you just might miss it :glow:
Hi.I've moved on since I last posted in 2010.It's now 2012 and I'm doing great,my heart has healed and am ready for the wonderful mate that God really has for me!!
