Author	Thread: I just don't get it
cameron0783 View Profile History	I just don't get it Posted : 21 Nov, 2010 09:36 AM I don't understand what women want out of a man. I had this perfect woman that I truly loved with all my heart, and one day for no reason she just stopped loving me. I don't know maybe she has problems of her own that I don't know about, but I could not help her anyways she would not talk to me about problems. She said I was controlling by asking what she did during her day. I thought that is what all couples do, they ask their partner how their day was. I don't know this is the hardest thing in the world. I poured my heart and soul into her and she just threw it away like it was trash. I rather get shot with a gun than feel this way. I am stupid I thought if I was loyal, devoted, loving, romantic, funny, and always honest that nothing could hurt my relationship. I guess that is not good enough. I feel like giving up and just being alone for the rest of my life. I have faith, but I just wish I could understand more of why things like this happen. It seems like it happens for no reason. Post Reply
guitarpaul View Profile History	I just don't get it Posted : 21 Nov, 2010 12:49 PM i feel the same, similar thing happened to myself. i have been single 2 years now. What keeps me going is that i know god will place a women in my life in his time, although its hard not to question god? You know what you can count on, and that is that gods love is not even debatable, he loves you with an everlasting love, cherish it mate and build your relationship with god becuase he wont let you down god bless brother Post Reply
Mercymay View Profile History	I just don't get it Posted : 22 Nov, 2010 04:53 AM Women also don�t really understand men. Probably we all have similar stories to tell. Loving whole heartedly and all of a sudden, maybe for things that could have been worked out in an open minded communication, the other just stop loving. I hope you just stated for the sake of exaggeration �I rather get shot with a gun than feel this way�. To be alive is still best, being loved or not. Because, while alive you have the chance to meet the one who will reciprocate the loyalty, devotion, love, etc that you can give. Next time though, before you ask her everyday activities, asked her first if it is ok with her. Put yourself in her shoes maybe. If she doesn�t ask you, then maybe she doesn�t want you to be asking her also. Other times, those that don�t like questions has something to hide. Those who just stop loving probably have reasons they are ashamed to say. Believe that everything happens for a reason. Just continue to trust God, maybe she is not yet the right person, or maybe it is not yet the right time. Maybe God is working on both your lives. Believe that God is so good all the time. Post Reply
cameron0783 View Profile History	I just don't get it Posted : 22 Nov, 2010 09:47 AM Of course I did not mean I rather get shot. It was just a figure of speech to compare how much it hurts. I know everything happens for a reason. The thing is that she came into my life and was very controlling of me. I know I should have not let that happen, but I loved her and told myself I would do anything to make her happy. Together for a few years planning to get married. She tells me how much she loves me and wants to be with me forever and then the next day says "I am sorry I love you, but I am not sure I love you in the right way, I need time to think" I know what that means she just needs time to forget about me and make it easier on herself. I rather just have a clean break. I am fine and I will always have strong faith. I was just saying I don't understand why that happened for seemingly no reason. Post Reply
Danama View Profile History	I just don't get it Posted : 25 Nov, 2010 03:04 AM Maybe shes hiding something and doesnt want you to pry into her day. Or maybe she has a problem with something about you that she doesnt really want to tell you about. Post Reply
View Profile History	I just don't get it Posted : 25 Nov, 2010 05:32 AM Cameron, Read your original post. You write �I had this perfect woman that I truly loved with all my heart� Yet you also write �The thing is that she came into my life and was very controlling of me.� Mixed signals? It would appear that you are not all that sure about her? As hard as it might seem now�this may be as it should be. Find other interests and in time you�ll feel less hurt. Professional help may be a good idea too. Post Reply
LavButterfly View Profile History	I just don't get it Posted : 25 Nov, 2010 08:46 AM Cameron~~ I've been in your shoes more than once. It's a hard place to be and I lift you up in prayer! Now for the practical...she wasn't the right one for you...period. As much as it hurts, it would have hurt even more later. God wants his best for you and in order to recognize that we sometimes have to go to some pretty awful places. When (and it will eventually happen) you start to feel a bit better, you'll be able to look back on this and maybe see some clues on why this wasn't the right relationship. Maybe you won't. But God ABSOLUTELY knows what is best for both you and for her. He loves you too much to leave you in this place of pain, but you must be open to his love, grace and mercy! Talk to him...he wants to hear everything you have to say...EVERYTHING! Blessings on you! :angel: Post Reply
View Profile History	I just don't get it Posted : 9 Dec, 2010 09:23 AM "I don't understand what women want out of a man" That�s exactly what women think about men...so, I think only Jesus to help us dealing with relationship... Post Reply