Author	Thread: Does anyone else besides me feel this way?
Admin	Does anyone else besides me feel this way? Posted : 9 Oct, 2010 09:16 PM Like no one on here is truely interested in you? It's like no one is ever serious about me and they're talking to several other people. I haven't found anyone on here yet who was genuinely interested in me and who I can have great conversations with. Most conversations endup dieing before they even start. Also a lot of women on here seem shallow. They want a guy who's really good looking, athletic, makes great money, etc. It's like I'm never good enough for anyone. I'm really starting to feel like there's no one for me. I know God has a plan for my life but I don't know if it includes a woman or not but my deepest desire above all is to serve the Lord with all my mind, body and soul. But I have always desired a good loving woman to love me and start a family with. My entire life I've dreamed of what true love is like. Also I really want children to love and watch grow. I'm not sure I'll make a good mate or father but all I know is my heart desires for me to be both and I will love my wife and children with all my heart. Post Reply
View Profile History	Does anyone else besides me feel this way? Posted : 9 Oct, 2010 09:21 PM Laugh but sometimes I just want to curl into a ball and just cry my sorrows out. Honestly sometimes I do cry because stuff gets to me... Post Reply
View Profile History	Does anyone else besides me feel this way? Posted : 9 Oct, 2010 10:30 PM I'm sorry that you're frustrated and hurting. Unfortunately, most of us are in the same boat. We wouldn't be here if we weren't =( Post Reply
i_live_in_canada View Profile History	Does anyone else besides me feel this way? Posted : 10 Oct, 2010 01:02 AM Awe so sad! CoolSouthernNights86 don't sweet it your still so young. You will find that special lady in time. The worst thing is to let it consume you. Also dating sites can be like that. People are shopping for the best choice. They don't know you really and have a lot of people to pick through. You should try to do more stuff not over the net. Things like joining groups at your church. When you meet some one with no expectations of dating it's different. You may not have been attracted to them initially but in time start to fall in love. Give it time and don't despair. Post Reply
View Profile History	Does anyone else besides me feel this way? Posted : 10 Oct, 2010 03:38 PM I think most of us can relate we all want to love and be loved fr ourselves and I know I am not what most men want in life and that it will take longer for me to find the one God has planned for me. I am willing to wait but its not an easy wait by any means.. GBU Post Reply
View Profile History	Does anyone else besides me feel this way? Posted : 10 Oct, 2010 05:51 PM Like others have said, you're not alone. I've tried to initiate conversations with girls that I thought I might be interested in, only to be either completely ignored or to receive one response and then be ignored. I've found the same issues you have. I've given up trying to find people to message back and forth with here, and now I'm only here for the forums. My advice would be to turn to God and cast your cares upon Him. Remember that He's in control, and He has someone in store for you. Post Reply
DEEDEE72 View Profile History	Does anyone else besides me feel this way? Posted : 10 Oct, 2010 07:38 PM I used to come on here and do advance searches and send out emails and winks and come back the next day with no responses. The people had not even viewed my profile. I was so frustrated. I started reading the forum and learning alot from people I have come to respect and for the most part only come on here now for the forums. I rarely get any emails or winks. I know how you feel Christians and people in the world seem to be looking for the same thing in a mate and that is the most important to them (looks).... That's my two cents... Post Reply
View Profile History	Does anyone else besides me feel this way? Posted : 11 Oct, 2010 03:55 AM I personally think God wants us to have the desires of our heart and, if that is a mate, he will bring it to pass but only in HIS TIME!! That is the part that is hard. I believe that the timing is what is key here. Just keep praying about it and seeking God in this. I believe, when I'm ready and the time is right, God will bring someone in my life and it will be worth all the waiting! Post Reply
SilverFire View Profile History	Does anyone else besides me feel this way? Posted : 11 Oct, 2010 04:01 AM Ya know, you have a lot of the characteristics that women say they are looking for. That last one (children) sets you apart from most guys. But online life is pretty rough on us all, especially guys -- even those of us who are Extremely picky about whom we send mail still end up with response ratios approaching zero. What can you do about it? Well, the only two things I know are to not let it define me, and to hang out in the forums. Here at least people write back! Post Reply
View Profile History	Does anyone else besides me feel this way? Posted : 11 Oct, 2010 09:59 AM Yeah, that's true Silver. Another problem I have encountered is even if I find someone who's genuinely interested in me they always want me to move to be with them. I know I'm the man and as far as society is concerned I should be the one to go to her and not the other way around but financially speaking I can't do that right now since I'm a student and I don't currently have any income. I know that's a big turn off to most women, a guy without a job but I'm working on it. I've had a purdy mixed up life and a rough start but I'm praying God makes a way for me. I know I gotta stand up and be the man I need to be but I can't do everything alone. Right now it's like the world is pressing down on my shoudler and I'm sinking in quick sand. I am trying so hard to stand but I just can't seem to find a way out. Post Reply
View Profile History	Does anyone else besides me feel this way? Posted : 11 Oct, 2010 10:08 AM You'll probably laugh at me saying this but I feel like time is pasisng by so quickly. Yes I'm 24 which is still fairly young but my time clock is ticking and I'm starting to really realize that I don't have tons of time left to find a woman and have children. I just pray it happens before I'm 40. LOL. I had more to say on topic but my mind loses things easily. ADD Post Reply

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