Author	Thread: Why in a relationship you give your all and the other cheats?
Admin	Why in a relationship you give your all and the other cheats? Posted : 4 Aug, 2010 01:17 PM :angel: Hi Everyone :angel: Today I am reflecting on my life. Why? Why me is the thought that crosses my mind. I am faithful I am loyal and I gave all in a relationship that I thought had meaning and love. Why does one go and be unfaithful to the woman he says he loves? i had this happen to me once before in my first marriage and now agian in my second. The second is quite hard because I have children and I deeply loved him with all my heart. Why why is God allowing this pain to happen to me to anyone. I had a thought today. I just thought of packing up me and the kids and drive drive far far away and just go explore what life has to offer and don't look back just drive.... Any thoughts from anyone would be helpful in this time....:angel: Post Reply
View Profile History	Why in a relationship you give your all and the other cheats? Posted : 6 Aug, 2010 05:19 AM On a personal note. I have moved on and ready to start my new chapter in my life. :applause: I just was looking back in my past and just put that as a learning experience :nahnah: But I have moved on and ready to start my new chapter in my life with God by my side. Also if both you and your partner both don't have the Lord by your side it will weaken your relationship with one another. I have a lot of proof of that. :angel: So I hope that when I meet my man he loves the Lord as much as I do.:angel::yay: Hope all have a wonderful weekend. :yay: Post Reply
View Profile History	Why in a relationship you give your all and the other cheats? Posted : 7 Aug, 2010 04:54 PM LOVE should never be taken for granted. If you love someone you should only love that one person unconditional and not go astray..... I love my lover with all my heart. My lover is my soul mate forever.... I do not go astray from my lover as I expect my lover never go astray either. :) love. love is not taken so lightly for some. it is a very deep word, it means so much to me and to most. Love is a very serious feeling, not a joke. �You can't stop loving or wanting to love because when its right, it's the best thing in the world. When you're in a relationship and it's good, even if nothing else in your life is right, you feel like your whole world is complete.� Keith Sweat Immature love says "I love you because I need you." Mature love says "I need you because I love you." Post Reply
Vinnymanvinny View Profile History	Why in a relationship you give your all and the other cheats? Posted : 8 Aug, 2010 03:52 PM I was with a woman for 4 1/2 years and i never cheated on her but I found out that she had been cheating on me for a long time. I was heart broken and devastated. I can tell you from experience when you don't understand why things are happening to you its best to grab a hold of God and continually ask him to help you through it and he will. God bless you. Post Reply
CountryGirl48 View Profile History	Why in a relationship you give your all and the other cheats? Posted : 8 Aug, 2010 04:59 PM I was in a relationship for three years. Found out that he was e-mailing other women on the porn site telling them what he wanted to do to them and them do to him. I packed my bags and came back to Ga. It really hurt because I loved him. All he wanted was a maid. Well, he will have to smooth talk some other stupid woman like I was but not anymore. This man is 78 and e-mailing a 26yr old. I know she is old enough to be on the porn but it makes me sick. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why in a relationship you give your all and the other cheats? Posted : 13 Aug, 2010 11:55 AM I have been married For 4 years, i say have been becasue my Divorce has not been filed for yet becasue i am Broke! My husband cheated on me several times during the marriage it was never have sex but talking to them on myspace, facebook and yahoo! He would get there numbers and start texting and calling them all hours of the night even from (3rd shift) while i was at home in bed fast asleep! I feel away from Do during the time that we were married and maybe that is my lesson to get from what happend was always stay with God! But in Febuary of this year i was taking him to work and he told me that I had till the end of March to find a job (which i had been filling out at least 10 applications a week, praying everyday and had almost everyone i know including his mother Praying too) or he was going to ask me to leave, he was going to choose our gay guy roomate over me, he was choosing paying his bills! I was devastated...I looked at him then and walked away! But that was the best thing i could have done, the very next day he had a new girlfriend and i have been so close to God since then! I still hurt sometimes but i've learned that I KNOW i deserve better than that and i KNOW i will NEVER go back to him! I always felt like Jesus and Seth where playing tug-of-war, Jesus on one side pulling and Seth on the Other side...I am so thankful that this is a War that Jesus won! Anyway what i dont understand is he wont even talk to me now about getting the divorce...he had said becasue he wanted it that he would pay for it and he would pay off the bills in my name and neither of those things have happend and right now i only make $130 a week as a Nanny! Not nearly enough for a place of my own so i had to move back home with the parents and sleeping in the Living room! Its Frustrating becasue i was more like his mother than his wife and he certainly wasnt the Christian man that the Bible teaches...i'm not even sure he was a christian at all! He said he was saved but didnt act like it! My Prayer for him though is That God will contuine to try to get him back, that he will keep sending the holy spirit to him untill he either becomes a christion or redicated his life to GOD! I Pray that one day if i ever see him out in public that he is that Christian man! As for me i'm not sure why i shared all of this but my prayer is that If God sees fit for me to ever get married again then he will send that Man that is a Christian that will act ALL the time the way the bible teaches Men to act, that he will pray for me and with me, That he will lead our Family and not act ashamed of me! That we will be a family that will serve God! and if God sees fit that i stay single thats okay too I pray that he will give me the strength to embrace that and use it for his Glory! Thanks for Reading Vanessa :0) Post Reply
liyah View Profile History	Why in a relationship you give your all and the other cheats? Posted : 16 Aug, 2010 06:23 AM WOW!! stay strong and positive y'all:prayingf: Post Reply
pinkeez View Profile History	Why in a relationship you give your all and the other cheats? Posted : 17 Aug, 2010 06:05 AM Hi..MorningStar,.. Why God let it happend? hmm..as far as I know..still HE is a good God and Faithful. been there too. I dont want to questioned God, I more evaluate myself. if you think u r faithful and loyal it's good then..don't you think our Father in heaven doesnt know that? He knows.. HE loves you more than anything. Certainly when it came about Love its not only you that work on it but ur partner too. So, thats why makes sure that ur partner already accept Jesus in his life. Let say before entering marriage usually theres a class of prewed. There u will b ministry with local pastor. Usualy he will help to deliver all both ur past and curse from both family. it does have related with our family history. if you came from a broken family ur great geat grandparents from away generation above you. You might in circle of family curse. mine is 'knock out" bfore marriage.my fiancee is from divorcing family. I just want to make sure we will have it deliverence bfore entering marriage. the point is : 1. Surender God's completely n TRUST HIM with all of you heart, ask what HE wants in ur life next. 2. Raise your children with your LOve and our FATHER in heaven's love ( teach your children about Jesus ) 3. I'm very sure that HE will provide your needs..HE is the provider. 4.Dont trauma.Forgiving is a must an order not an option. 5.Keep praying for those who have hurt you . You will never know... Hey, you are precious Woman. God knows you can face it with HIM who gives you strenght. Hope this can help you lil bit love in Christ Post Reply
pinkeez View Profile History	Why in a relationship you give your all and the other cheats? Posted : 17 Aug, 2010 06:11 AM Amen!!..:angel: Post Reply
View Profile History	Why in a relationship you give your all and the other cheats? Posted : 18 Aug, 2010 05:14 AM Hi, Vanessa Next just be careful, its really hurting.Choose a man that loves the Lord with all his heart, mind and soul, that way, you are sure, his love for you won't fade. Its always the sin of the flesh that entice an ungodly man to be unfaithful. I don't why they even call it love..., be strong woman, you are beautiful, if you can't find him yet, there is reaon, keep on believing in god's plans for you... God bless Post Reply
View Profile History	Why in a relationship you give your all and the other cheats? Posted : 18 Aug, 2010 11:36 AM Thank You Lady! I try to remember that everyday! Post Reply

First

Page : 1 2

Next  9 >>

Last