Author	Thread: Breakups and Revenge
1stworldview View Profile History	Breakups and Revenge Posted : 23 Feb, 2017 01:53 AM Revenge Your Ex Each day hundreds of men and women seek revenge on their ex-mates for a variety of reasons, usually because they got dumped or where cheated on. Revenge comes in many ways. It typically starts by using social media to vent, and then escalates from there. Now sites like "Get Revenge On Your Ex" for a fee will help you get pay back or revenge. So what is the best way to get revenge besides slashing her tires, posting nude photos of her and so on. The best way according to the web site Right Choices 101 is to live your life well. This is true no matter who you are seeking revenge on. Coworkers, past bosses, bad friends or ex-lovers. Put your energy into succeeding and enjoying your life, not wasting your time, energy and resources on revenge that can end up costing you much more. Plus, when you seek revenge, you send them a massage that you have not gotten over the relationship. It's much better to show you are indifferent and don't care. According to Kenneth Agee of A Foreign Affair, a service that specializes in helping men find young beautiful foreign women, "The best revenge is to date or marry a women 10 years younger than your ex. No woman ever wants to be replaced with a younger, more attractive woman. Just like a man never likes to get replaced by a guy who is wealthier or more successful. I will never forget one of my first clients we took to Saint Petersburg, Russia." says Agee, "The client told me that two days on our tour was better than two years of therapy. Having hundreds of attractive women fighting over you gets your ex out of your mind pretty quick. I personally went through break up when my ex ran off with another man. But a short time later, I met a new lady who was ten times better. I ran into that man who stole my ex and I gave him a big thanks. In fact, I could not thank him enough. He was stuck with an older nagging women, while I was now with a young, beautiful, caring women. Plus, my ex had gained about 100 pounds. I don't look at that fellow as any kind of enemy but as the person who saved me from my ex and years of suffering." This is the best a revenge when you win without lowering yourself. Other sites like "Get Over Her Now" give practical advice and tips for getting over a past relationship. Top Tips from Get Over Her Now: Start making platonic relationships with as many women as possible, old, young, skinny, fat, cute or ugly. This greatly helps you get back in the game of socializing with the opposite sex. And it opens up lots opportunities to meet their cute attractive friends in a more relaxed environment. This also helps you build your game and confidence. Improve yourself, start working out, get up early every day and exercise. Buy new clothes. Dressing better makes you feel better and improves your confidence. Focus on work and getting a promotion or raise. Don't let a break up effect your work negatively. Put that extra effort into work and it will pay off with a better position and more money. This will also build your confidence and help attract better quality women. Any time you are depressed, improving yourself helps greatly. When you feel depressed, don't sit and watch TV and then sleep-in late. Get out and do something that will make you feel like you've accomplished something. Take a class, go hiking, fix something you've been putting off. Don't start drinking. Drinking will always have a negative impact on your life. Don't drink while depressed or when you are trying to get over some one. After all, drinking is for celebrating. So if you are not celebrating something, don't drink. A quality women is not going to be attracted to someone who drinks a lot or has a drinking problem. Don't sleep in; sleeping late increases depression. Get up as early as you can and go for a walk, take a hike, or go to the Gym. Research shows getting up early and exercising can eliminate depression. You will have no game be depressed. Don't binge eat. If you start gaining weight, you will feel less self-worth and lose your confidence. Confidence is a quality that women are extremely attracted to. Conclusion, the best revenge is when you improve your life so well that she realizes she made a big mistake. And satisfaction comes when you meet someone so much better, you are glad the ex is gone. After all, if you are seeking revenge, how great could she really have been in the first place! Post Reply
View Profile History	Breakups and Revenge Posted : 26 Feb, 2017 07:47 PM The best revenge is forgiveness. because as long as you are motivated by any sort of "revenge," you're not letting go. Matthew 6:15 says, if you are not letting go, God won't let go of your sins either. Is it worth it? What's more important? Spending eternity in heaven or getting that 'perfect' revenge? In the end, revenge backfires. Think about it. Post Reply
gaileguia View Profile History	Breakups and Revenge Posted : 8 Mar, 2017 07:22 PM Amen Post Reply
View Profile History	Breakups and Revenge Posted : 13 Mar, 2017 11:37 AM Describing the best revenge is like describing the best sin. We are never to seek revenge in any fashion. We are told to bless those who curse us and pray for them. My ex would bring another man into my home with my children there while I was at work during the day. She was sleeping with him before we were divorced. I went through many sleepless nights in some very intense spiritual warfare (yes, I wanted to take serious revenge!), but I did not succumb to taking revenge. Instead I agreed to everything she asked for in the divorce settlement, contrary to my lawyer's advice. I believe God blessed me for behaving this way, because in the end, she didn't seek much money (she could have according to the laws of our state), and she ended up leaving me many of the things she said she wanted. Oh, the man she left me for... turns out he was sending nude pics of himself to his wife (he was still married) while he was living with my ex. She dumped him. Now she's living in a camper all alone. Obeying God is always the best path even if it doesn't appear to be at the time. Post Reply