Almost three years ago I met a wonderful man on this site .
We started talking and soon we fell in love with each other. He was everything to me . My soulmate . I was willing to do anything for him including moving to his country as he lived at States . For year and a half we talked , he used to tell me he loved me every single day !!! We were supposed to get married . But then on December 2014 he left me . He claimed that the though of becoming a father again is weighing his mind . He was divorced and had two daughters and he said it was unfair for me . I loved him so much that I was going to give up my dream to become a mother to be with him . The kids weren't a problem at all, we discussed that before but eventually it seemed like he didn't want any more kids . Despite the fact I begged him not to leave me ,he still left :( he broke my heart .
A few months later I found out he was dating another woman , it really hurt me . It's been 15 months and I haven't even dated anyone and he moved on so easily .
When we were talking I used to tell him that he could find someone who lives closer to him , but he insisted I was the only one for him .
As I mentioned I met him here , I trusted him, loved him , told him things I haven't shared with anyone .
And today I found out he got married !!! One of the sadest in my life !!! That was my biggest fear. I didn't expect it . Not so soon :( :(
I haven't stopped crying for months after he left me and now this .
I wish I knew what went wrong . To me it was real love . I can't imagine my life with anyone but him but it's too late . I lost my only reason to smile . My life us meaningless without him and the fact that he moved on so easily and got married shattered my heart .
I love him . I will always do . I don't think I'll ever get over this .
Hello i feel sadness in my heart for you for your lose of love.
I too have felt the pain of finding love on the internet only to have the person just leave.
In 2012 i meet a lovely woman from Holland, she was beautiful we had so much in common, i fell in love with her.
We talked once a week on the phone and we emailed each other every day, i was so excited that she loved me.
We wanted to meet each other so i started to save, she wanted me to fly to her country and then pay for her to fly with me back home to my country, anyway in December 2014 she said she had a problem, and she needed help she lost her job as a trainee nurse at the hospital she was working in and she had fair reason and she could not pay her months rent and she needed money to pay her rent and plus the money to leave to fly to me and i would not have to come over she would meet me at the airport and we would get married i was so happy and could barely breath i was so excited.
I sent her $4000 and i never heard from her until 2015 where i found out she moved to America, she went there with my money to meet another man and she told me this in an email it broke my heart into pieces i was so sad, so i became a lonely man and sat in my room not knowing why my money was gone and why i thought i was in love but it was really just fake
So i feel like i need to find love again and this site is very scary because it was love online that broke my heart. God healed my heart and guided me here to try again.
So i feel your pain and your sadness and if you need a man whom will be honest and respectful i am here to listen and talk, I a ma committed man and i just need love of a good woman.
I will never leave you if i tell you i love you so if you want to try to see if we are meant to be then i will love that.
I am a strong man but i am also sensitive and lost and only found so far in the Lord but my life is empty and hard.
When the door close,the window in heaven open...you must be thankful to our God cause you discover that he is cheating you..its more painful if you married that unfaithful man,your life will be more mesirable...I understand what you feel,the pain,feeling being used and cheated...I also went through a rough relationship,I'm glad that my family help me to move on,I surrender everything to the lord, the process of healing a broken heart is quite hard but if u allow god to work on your life u will feel relieved,u can even forgive the man that hurt you. I will pray for you.cheers
He left you because he was not worthy of you, ultimately. You have learned much of love and risk from him, take that and go on. If he found someone else, so readily, he would not have remained by your side.
This is so true. I do not understand why people become so upset when they are left by someone so unfaithful. You deserve more than that. Your self-worth never comes from another human being it comes from knowing who you are in Christ. The world may take much away from you but it can never take away your value in the eyes of God.
He loved you, he died for you, he left all to sacrifice for you. He gave up all his riches so that you will one day enjoy Him forever.
Who could ever love you like this? No one! You can only truly be fulfilled by His love and until we understand this we could never be free to truly love and be loved how He first loved us.
I was abandoned in marriage and if it was not knowing that his love for me was unshakable, i would have fallen apart. Knowing, living and walking in faith to God's true character is freeing, up-lifting and purifying.
God bless all those that have had their hearts broken because in our brokenness we experience the healing of our truly beautiful God.
Dear lady, so sad story... Even more sad that you can meet such cheating people here, on a Christian web site... Only... how can you keep loving a cheater? Just look how disgusting is what he did with you... He did not do any good thing for you... Only deceitful words... He was holding you as a second option at that giving so many hopes to you, so many promises.. God will decide what will be the punishment for such person... Just leave it and don't forget to check your future man many times before giving your heart to smb again.
