Author	Thread: Free vs paying dating sites
Admin	Free vs paying dating sites Posted : 3 Jan, 2016 12:19 PM It doesn't matter ....they are everywhere..... I am talking about the scammers who am playing with us who am longing for a partner. I think it is better to be here and be careful instead. I have been LOVE scammed but not of money but emotions because they make us be in love in the words they are sending us more than the pictures of stolen photos. One time when I was scammed of the dream of met the perfect one did I not walked out for 6 months as I madly in love told all I met I should marry a man in Texas. Last time did I had to walk out and face people and telling them I was wrong...that I have been fooled Post Reply
View Profile History	Free vs paying dating sites Posted : 31 Jan, 2016 01:40 PM Yeah, you are completely right about stolen emotions or hopes we somewhy start to garden in our hearts:). Thanks God I didn't suffer neither financially nor emotionally because of scammers but I really suppose it is very harmful for our souls. I guess you can define scammers due to some certain features in their manner of communication: 1 - from the very beginning they start to express a very strong affection to your personality 2 - they're trying to persuade you to focus only on them and chat through email or Whatsapp BUT never Skype or Google Hangouts where you can use your camera 3 - they write so sweet and lovely letters, so deep and thought-provoking which we like very much:) 4 - they surely start making plans about future 5 - they lie We can't realise that any man or woman we're in correspondence with is mostly the reflection of our personal thoughts. They are much more the images we create in our minds than real persons we know I guess. Post Reply
View Profile History	Free vs paying dating sites Posted : 17 May, 2016 09:25 PM Yeah, it's sad. Very early on BEFORE you start to have feelings for a person, insist that you want to see them on video or Skype. If they cannot do that or don't want to do it for WHATEVER REASON, then move on. This is the best way to make sure that a person is real. Another way to double check is ask the person to fill out the MBTI personality test. You will have to Google this and read about it. Basically the idea is that a fake person will show multiple personality traits and inconsistencies in his behavior. So, if you can spot inconsistencies, you will be ablet to protect yourself. If someone is inconsistent and doesn't want to get on Skype, then you know you're dealing with a fake person! Post Reply
View Profile History	Free vs paying dating sites Posted : 29 Jul, 2016 09:44 AM Well I for one would not be videoing myself or on Skype for professional reasons. If someone wants to meet me, they meet me. Post Reply
View Profile History	Free vs paying dating sites Posted : 29 Aug, 2016 04:54 AM I have found that it's the same whether it's a free or paying site. You just have be descerning, get to know the person first via the site (scammers very quickly want to move to personal email contact) if you have something in common meet quickly or move on, don't allow unhealthy attachments to build up with months of email ping pong. Post Reply