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Found and Lost
Posted : 2 Nov, 2015 12:02 PM

On this site I met via chat/ messages back and forth, A Lady who I truly believed God had guided into my life. After a number of months, and me being deeply in love with her; The time came for me to move, as was spoken about in the very beginning. My plans prior to coming to CDFF's site was "I would be moving southward by summer 2015". Her (Lisa Ann) location was perfectly in my moving dirrection. She indicated she was quite interested in meeting me too.



The day came; I told her I'd be moving near to her location. That sounded good to her. Then when it was time to move she said she did not want me to move there.



My plans to move were not centered solely upon meeting her, moving to her area, YES- she was the strongest attraction for my move to be near her; However, I had decided about 2 years prior to our connection via CDFF, that I would be moving South, and most likely Southwest; She definitely attracted me southward.



After she said she did not want me to move yet, I told her that I have to, I've already made plans, and arrangements for my move, and due to a personal en-devour regarding an invention, Moving in a timely manner was a crucial element. Even if she wanted me to wait I could not. Suddenly: She just said goodbye! and departed from CDFF.



My thought is, maybe she was just playing me all along. Kind of makes me feel rather stupid. How could I fall in love with a woman I have not even met in person??



Anyone else go through this kind of thing. I really did not expect it, on a Christian site..... I guess "The Wolves Are Among us"; male, and female..



I wish and hope that I am wrong about her. Maybe she for some reason was just scared. I do wonder!!!



Thank you all for allowing me to share this with, Hopefully some good may come from it. I pray, In Jesus' name. Amen.



Sincerely, + heartbroken,

Bruce

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okiekansas777

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Posted : 4 Nov, 2015 05:28 AM

Bruce,



Most likely this was a person that is a Romance Scammer from Nigeria or one of those countries and not even guaranteed that it was a female. How do I know? It happened to me. I will say this site has been one of the quickest to finding deceivers in our midst.



I pray you never sent money to this person. I know the guy I talked to supposedly lived 50 miles from me and yet knew my money was tight so I wouldn't be rushing to go meet him. The day I got the chance to go there, all of a sudden he was on a plane heading to England. He never got a penny from me, but was trying to get me to receive mail forward to me from "his place" It was a financial scam of another type.....credit card fraud. I didn't except any packages after the first arrived and I returned that one.



I could share more but then I may be giving away too much public info.



okiekansas

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Lukia^

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Posted : 18 Nov, 2015 01:38 AM

In most cases those are scammers.

If she was real she would have been very happy to at last meet her guy physically.

It was all a lie from the beginning.They take time to strategise how to scamm money from innocent people.Some are guys using girls pics and names.

So sorry about that.

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