Thread: I've never had a broken heart and never will
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I've never had a broken heart and never will
Posted : 5 Nov, 2014 09:36 PM
Sometimes, their are legitimate cases of broken hearts. For example, I knew the cutest little Christian couple. They had been married decades. Then one year she decided she didn't want to be a Christian anymore, left her husband, and ran off with the plumber--as cliche as that may sound.
But why have I never had a broken heart? It's because I have walls thicker than the old city of Jerusalem. That doesn't mean I'm closed off to love, it means I'm closed off to playing games.
It also means that I can read a woman's mind and quantify and predict her every move. You think I'm kidding, but you are wrong. Fact is, the reason I know what kind of woman I'm looking for is first because I know to the Nth degree what I'm not looking for.
My advise to the unneeded broken hearted is that often people do it to themselves by virtue of their own folly, fickleness and faithlessness. If you go to a brothel looking for love, don't be surprised if you end up weeping and broken by a garbage dump.
What am I saying? I'm saying that it is time to get smart and both-feet-on-the-ground REAL. So much that people believe about "love" is totally delusional fantasia. I'm talking about reality. And sadly, I would sat that at least 90% of the broken hearts today are self-inflicted wounds due to idiocy. I'm even talking about Christians so-called. They will say, "But I work, go to church h and pray! Why does this happen?"
It happens because KNOWLEDGE and WISDOM can't be faked! People are destroyed for LACK OF KNOWLEDGE, and the fact is that people do not know the WORD OF GOD on the matter! These are the same types who do Praise & Worship on Sunday. THEM! THEY are the ones who most of all are DELUSIONAL about love because of what they never knew.
You can't fake study. You can't fake wisdom. You can't fake discernment. You can't fake REAL LEARNING. McChurch doesn't work. Believe that and understand it! The FEW are those who find LIFE. The many on the Broadway are destroyed in mass! You had better believe it.
Strong's G2754 - kenodoxia - vain glory, groundless, self esteem, empty pride, a vain opinion, error
Phl 2:3 Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory; but in lowliness of mind let each esteem other better than themselves.
Psalm 14
14 The fool hath said in his heart, There is no God. They are corrupt, they have done abominable works, there is none that doeth good.
2 The Lord looked down from heaven upon the children of men, to see if there were any that did understand, and seek God.
3 They are all gone aside, they are all together become filthy: there is none that doeth good, no, not one.
4 Have all the workers of iniquity no knowledge? who eat up my people as they eat bread, and call not upon the Lord.
5 There were they in great fear: for God is in the generation of the righteous.
6 Ye have shamed the counsel of the poor, because the Lord is his refuge.
7 Oh that the salvation of Israel were come out of Zion! when the Lord bringeth back the captivity of his people, Jacob shall rejoice, and Israel shall be glad.
*** The LORD has suffered much...even a Broken Heart for HIS Children...I'm really glad the destroyers of 70 AD left the ONE wall intact...it holds the eastern gate which Jesus passed through into the city of David...the city of Bread...All people have walls and have felt the effects of brokeness in some way or another...to say otherwise is...well...it only deceives ones self...deception is of the deceiver satan and has no place in the Christians walk with Jesus the Christ...
Jesus wept for individuals and for Jerusalem. The gospels point out His compassion. Isaiah foretold His sorrows.
I think it is fair to say He was broken-hearted.
I do not think it is advisable for us to be ... so guarded that our hearts cannot be broken.
No, we should not be gullible. But Jesus was the wisest man who ever lived ... and His own familiar friend with whom he ate bread betrayed Him. Though Jesus knew it was coming, the anguish of it was not lost on Him. As much as He is God, He became also fully human.
>>For me, love is when I can think that I would die for this person. If i did, then my search is over!
I honestly believe I would lay my life down for any other Christian. Perhaps I would come short ... but ... loving the brethren in that manner is the goal.
But I'm searching for a partner in Christ's yoke. And for that, basic love is not the only criterion. There must be a great deal of agreement on goals and means to those goals.