Author	Thread: Lost faith in Women
Admin	Lost faith in Women Posted : 6 Aug, 2014 09:07 AM I am 45 years old and I am so miserable right now. By now I should have been married and had children but for some reason I have not found a woman who would love me for me. I have put myself out there and all I keep getting is rejection from women who I am interested in. I have had my heart broken twice before and I am just frustrated right now. My faith in God is high but my faith in women is so low. Post Reply
DontHitThatMark View Profile History	Lost faith in Women Posted : 6 Aug, 2014 11:17 AM People can sense frustration and desperation, I don't know the specifics of your case, but you might need to become more comfortable with being by yourself, especially if you want to find a mature/stable relationship. One of the most attractive things to people is a person who has their life together and who has confidence in themselves, hopefully thru Christ in their life. :peace::peace: Post Reply
View Profile History	Lost faith in Women Posted : 6 Aug, 2014 03:34 PM I would say before; a number of years ago that would have been my issue. However I have confidence in myself now and I have never really put myself as being desperate. Thanks for your reply. Post Reply
View Profile History	Lost faith in Women Posted : 6 Aug, 2014 10:51 PM Sorry friends for me seeming negative but I am actually optimistic that I will find someone at christiandatingforfree. Please pray for me I need your prayers. Post Reply
View Profile History	Lost faith in Women Posted : 14 Aug, 2014 04:07 PM The expectation to be married and have kids by middle age is an artificial social construct and at that, one that no longer fits in the western world. What I'm saying is that you're not alone in this and within a few decades I suspect we'll be considered strange for holding such an "outdated" viewpoint. That doesn't fix your problem though, and I'm sorry to say that I think it will get worse in time, not better, if I'm right. Post Reply
Pops61 View Profile History	Lost faith in Women Posted : 20 Aug, 2014 07:12 PM I feel ya RAC, it's tough keeping the spirits up when you put yerself out there time and time again and with one reply all hope comes crumbling and tumbling down. Well... maybe it's not all that bad but trying to make a point brother. I think we all experience the disappointments here one way or another but shouldn't so much lose faith and blame the women or women blame the men as maybe we should be looking to ourselves and being real about who we desire and what we really want here and is it best? Is it what God desires for us... are we allowing God to guide us, direct us and praying for the person who He may have cross you path, even if only for a word God may speak through you for that specific person... if only we knew huh? Thankfully our God knows and His timing is right every time all the time. One of many things I'm guilty of and can do imho is just be thankful, don't isolate myself but be involved with family, friends n church as much as possible even when we don't feel like it. Look for and listen because God is right by our side through it all. Prov. 3 is a good word and teaching for trusting the Lord and perspective. Post Reply
0Michael0 View Profile History	Lost faith in Women Posted : 30 Aug, 2014 01:04 AM Married by now with children... that is true. It is also true you feel pain. What ; an' t true is that every woman is like that... the key is to keep trying as you have a better chance by trying than not trying. Post Reply
HoosierHomeschooler View Profile History	Lost faith in Women Posted : 3 Sep, 2014 05:15 PM Rac, I expect we all have some of those feelings from time to time. I know many women have expressed their disillusion with men. It's a matter of 2 people who are both committed to God and are sufficiently in agreement finding each other. And many of us have poured ourselves out for someone who ... betrayed us. If you're single, never married, no kids ... you're a more attractive catch than some of us ... divorced, several kids, battle scars ... Keep looking & praying, brother! Post Reply
Apostelle View Profile History	Lost faith in Women Posted : 4 Sep, 2014 09:13 AM I think we all feel your pain in one way or another, brother RAC. Im in the same boat as you. 46 never married, etc. I havent given up on women in general, just in online dating. My problem is that I meet a woman, court her for a time, and then find out she has no interest in starting a family. Either she thinks she is too old to have a healthy child or she has already has children and doesnt want to start having more. I can understand that, but at the same time, I dont have kids and want my own...not to raise someone elses kids. Post Reply
princess1972 View Profile History	Lost faith in Women Posted : 31 Dec, 2014 10:43 AM what i can tell you about your situation is that nobody is perfect but we are all runnig to it. so you can't decide to lost faith in women because of one woman that deceive you. for remember in churches there are good and wicked together and when you want to marry don't just chose a woman because she is beautiful. you like her yes but also go before God fr a spiritual enlightening. i know what i'm talking about. so it's not the fault of women, but your fault. why? you didn't develop your relationship with God in the stage where you can ask him for counsil in every choice of your life. just ask God to heal you and develop a deep, deeper why not deepest relationship with God and it's will avoid you bad choice.GOD BLESS YOU Post Reply
maks84 View Profile History	Lost faith in Women Posted : 4 Jan, 2015 08:49 AM Sometimes prays are not enough. There are examples in Bible that even God told to someone "Act!". So faith and praying is not enough, especially when you want to meet someone. It is very hard to find appropriate candidate to relationship even if you are atheist. And for believer, for christian to find appropriate christian to relationship/marriage is almost impossible nowtimes. Why? We all, people, even if we are christian, we are too much carnal, we are obsessed with money, sex, materialism, consumption, our safety (economical, pchysical). Harsh times, hard times. That is why jungle law is even seanable in christians behaviour so much. There was probably always a jungle law on earth . Between animals and humans too. Women always had want to have economical and physical protection since the begining of time , but now in so corrupted, hard times when there are everywhere liars, cheaters, thiefs, bandits, rapists, murderers, greedy corporations, banks, big companys, who want to get everything for themselves, the every human feel uncomfortable and unsafe and especially women of course. Some of them chose the easy way, carnal, worldish way of living. Because way of christian is very, very hard now times. To be christian walking narrow Jesus Chrtist way man need to have frugality in every aspect of life. But what we watch every day on streets, on TV, or in internet portals? Carnal hedonism. Obsessions with fashion, food, sex and so on. So if you are a good christian my friend, you will have a dificulties with finding appropriate match for relationship/marriage. Even few times in Bible there is that christians' way will not be easy. Yes. God bless, but do not give us things on the plate right before our nose to get them easily. It doesn't work that way. And the times are really hard for believers. :/ Do not give up. But remember, that marriage is not the most important thing in the world. I know that living without love is very hard. I know. Wish you luck. Sorry for my weak english. ;) Post Reply

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