Author	Thread: My heart is broken and I'm all alone.
Messenger11 View Profile History	My heart is broken and I'm all alone. Posted : 5 Jul, 2014 03:59 PM Never done this before, but I have no one else to talk with about this. To start with, I'm going thru a divorce. She left me on May 16th for her babies daddy, came back two weeks ago, and then left again Thursday. Said she wasn't going back to him, and to be honest...I'm not sure if they are back together, or she just needed a place to stay. I have filed for divorce and it should be final in about 3 weeks. And I know I need to accept that this marriage will not work, but I do feel that she loves me (to some extent). There are so many reasons I need to move on but I'm so lonely. I have lived here for about 3 years, but I am self employed and I travel in my job and I don't have a network of friends to help me get thru this. I need someone to talk with and help me get thru this. I feel bad that I have to turn to strangers, but hopefully the Lord will send me the right person (people) to help me get thru this. Thanks in advance if anyone wants to talk with me. Post Reply
Messenger11 View Profile History	My heart is broken and I'm all alone. Posted : 6 Jul, 2014 10:44 AM I'm really disappointed that no one has replied to my post. I am hurting so very much right now. I need lots of prayer to get me thru this. I am so depressed...I so much want help. Please Lord help me. Post Reply
Hisjoymypeace View Profile History	My heart is broken and I'm all alone. Posted : 6 Jul, 2014 12:09 PM I can't imagine what your going thru, feeling or how your coping in this troubling time of your life! I truly hope that your faith in God and trust in Jesus Christ, gives you the strength, wisdom and courage to press forward, doing what has to be done to eventually start to live the life you want to live! Now with all that said, you'll still have to be very careful in how you approach the desire to be married again! I suggest that you take time to pray and meditate on how The Lord will have you make your next move! Moving too quickly into another relationship before you've really taken ALL the time needed to seek the heart of God in this, could turn out to be a fatal mistake! You don't want to re-live some of your past choices or decisions! You would now, more than ever, want God's best, in His time, in His way! Yes your feelings of loneliness can be unbearable, but never, ever forget that The Lord said He would never leave you nor forsake you!!! Trust in The Lord my friend and He will give you the desires of your heart! God's best for you........ Post Reply
NRSV1953 View Profile History	My heart is broken and I'm all alone. Posted : 6 Jul, 2014 12:22 PM Messenger: I attempted to send you a private message essentially saying just what HisJoyMyPeace said but your age limits prevented me. . . Too bad. Post Reply
Lukia^ View Profile History	My heart is broken and I'm all alone. Posted : 7 Jul, 2014 12:39 AM Messenger11, Sorry for what is happening in your life.I understand exactly how you feel and what you are experiencing right now. Just as HisJoyMypiece has said,trust in God,always remember that He will never forsake you.I know its not even easy to pray while you are there but knell down and just tell God to have mercy on you and to ease the pain. I went through the same in 1996 and I know it can be painful.The feelings you have now are normal.Feeling that the person loves you yet don't understand why she is doing that. When you feel low just pray,when you talk to friends choose those who are possitive,those who give some strength to your heart. And even when you hear negative things,because at this time you will hear very hurting things from friends or people close to you,just don't take them to heart.Let go all negatives and focus forward and to the future,believing all will be well. Even when you pass through the valley of death our God is faithful and will never forsake you. Take heart my brother. Remember it has happened to others and they have conquered,you will too. Another thing,don't rush to get into any relationship until you are completely healed.Though its good to have friends who understand you.At this time you are very vulnerable and can get hurt easily. I don't like writing too much but hope it helps. Post Reply
View Profile History	My heart is broken and I'm all alone. Posted : 16 Jul, 2014 05:11 AM We're not strangers, we're just brothers and sisters whose names you don't know, and being family we'll keep you in our prayers. :buddies: Post Reply
IamAnna View Profile History	My heart is broken and I'm all alone. Posted : 19 Jul, 2014 09:56 AM We maybe in a broken pieces but remember this you are not alone. Search God from deep inside your heart, He is the only one who knows every part of our lives. Surrender everything to God. Ask his direction and every time you feel depress or something that is out of your control just learn this PRAY ... Pause, Resist, Ask and Yield to God.. I learned this method from CCF a born again Christian church... CCF have an online video on their website that might help you. God bless and may God gives you direction. It is never to late to come to him.. Maybe God bring you here in order for you to see things beyond you cant see. Talk to God as if he is your friend, we need to be very careful to our responds in every situation. Post Reply