Author	Thread: Broken Heart Still Hasn't Healed
HorseRider View Profile History	Broken Heart Still Hasn't Healed Posted : 29 Apr, 2009 01:36 PM I was engaged to my high school sweetheart who I dated for over five years. We were on and off last year and now we are just friends. My heart won't let go of him even though he has moved on. I also lost some good friends on the ride of our break up. Anyone have any advice? I sometimes just don't know where to go from here. I can't seem to get my life focused on the future. I always look back at him. Then the only contact I seem to get on here are guys who want sex which really hurts. I am at Christian site for friendship and possibly more. Life sure changed once me and him and broke up and for some reason I just can't focus on the future. No idea of where to go from here or anything. Post Reply
View Profile History	Broken Heart Still Hasn't Healed Posted : 30 Apr, 2009 09:26 PM Well just have fun and be merry lol. Don't worry about the past. Just go on. Otherwise just hook up with your ex again get some of him lol. Post Reply
View Profile History	Broken Heart Still Hasn't Healed Posted : 2 May, 2009 05:49 AM Wow, that sounds like a lot to go through especially if you lost some good friends too. A good friend can be such a great support while you're going through a rough patch. Seek support from those that have stuck by your side, they are the ones that will help steer you in the right direction. I also know that it's hard to look toward the future after a break up when you're engaged because when you plan on spending the rest of your life with someone you plan the future together, then when they leave it feels like all your plans and dreams have left too. But hang in there, remember that God holds your future in His hands, ask Him to fill your heart again with new dreams and plans. I have learned that He always Has more in store for us than we can ever plan on our own. Trust and Pray....and I will pray for you as well. Good Luck! Elizabeth Post Reply
View Profile History	Broken Heart Still Hasn't Healed Posted : 5 May, 2009 04:17 PM If I had any advice to give you, I would suggest that if you are still hurting very badly about this, I could recommend a special counseling ministry for you to consider that could help you. Because no words that I would say would be able to take your pain away. I extracted this from your profile: "I'd love to find someone on here even just to chat with. Guy or girl who needs a friend! I know I could use more Christian friends." I know that I am 36 yrs. old, but I would be willing to be a friend to you, if you want to email me. I am not in the best of moods myself today, so can you say a prayer for me? :glow: Post Reply
angel78 View Profile History	Broken Heart Still Hasn't Healed Posted : 18 Jun, 2009 03:06 AM Wow I just looked at your photo... U have no thing to worry about you are young , pretty and u have god in your life... I have had my heart broken and the best thing I did was got rid of anything that reminded me of him.. It still hurts but I am alot better as I lost some friends through it all as I lost myself as he was my everything... He is now happy married and has a baby on the way I am happy for him but I am happy I don't live in the same town anymore... things will get better... keep smiling Post Reply
View Profile History	Broken Heart Still Hasn't Healed Posted : 7 Jul, 2009 11:22 AM Anna I don't know what happened between you and me. But all I know is that we were friends. I mean If you had other feelings for me, that I was unaware of then I am sorry. I wish I knew what was wrong. Well after this I won't bother you anymore ok. I am sorry for the inconvenience I have been. Look if the reason you don't talk to me anymore is because of my past, then I am sorry that you have judged me wrongly. Not everything is what it seems to be in the beginning. I really liked you. But if you don't like me anymore because you saw me talking to another girl at the college, then I am sorry about that too. That was a friend of mine who finally opened up to me on how she truly felt about me. But it just didn't work between us. It was her, not me. Liek I said, This is the last message I send you, I won't talk to you anymore. so Don't worry about me bothering you again ok. If you do happen to find it in your heart to talk to me again then just message me on here, if not. Then Good Luck, and God Bless. Your friend, Brandon Post Reply