Author	Thread: Is It Me
marcusmap2006 View Profile History	Is It Me Posted : 21 Apr, 2009 01:57 PM When it comes to dating, I asked what are they looking for in a man? They always tell me that they are looking for a nice guy that can treat them right and I treat them with respect, I was being a gentleman, returned phone calls and show how do I feel about them. Now some women don't even want to be friends with me, and I lord knows that I tried everything. I am in school taking medical billing and coding classes online and I do volunteer work at the red cross. Lord knows I am out there looking for jobs and the economy is so tough. So I'm asking this question, is it my fault why some women leave me, or is it their lost? I feel that I am better off looking for someone who believes in God like I do and someone who is God spirited like I am. Post Reply
chozen2b View Profile History	Is It Me Posted : 21 Apr, 2009 05:24 PM Unfortunately only those women could tell you why they chose to leave you. However, whatever the reasons it obviously wasn't meant to be so keep it moving. Post Reply
angel_in_mn View Profile History	Is It Me Posted : 23 Apr, 2009 09:56 AM No, it is not YOU!! You need to be yourself and all the right relationships will come your way - whether it be a friendship, dating, marriage, whatever. You can�t ask someone what they are looking for in a man and then try to be that man. You are a unique individual and there are things that make you stand out in who you are. Just going off what you said, I kind of get the impression that you maybe try too hard sometimes when dealing with the opposite gender. Maybe some women are confusing your kindness for weakness?? Chozen2b is absolutely right � those relationships were not meant to be. So don�t dwell on the past, but just move on and look forward to the future. Don't let this drag you down. Post Reply