Author	Thread: Feeling of abandonment
Admin	Feeling of abandonment Posted : 5 Dec, 2013 03:43 PM What do you do when you have a relationship with a girl who you think you were going to get engaged to in hopes of marriage? What about relationships with someone who decides it is not the best? That happened to me. What I found comforting is talking with someone about my broken heart. I had a mix of feelings, sadness, anger, depression, etc, etc. What I find is important is to lean on Christ, allow him to comfort you. After our break-up we both prayed for God's healing for one another. It is simply not the best just to abandon or to leave the one you had such a close and dear relationship with. Pray for that other person, that God helps them to heal and to move on. For me, I look on the bright side of what I can do to serve Christ. Also to reflect on what I can do to be a better man for the next gal. What do you do? It is easy to get depressed, angry, and upset. But pray for healing, those you talk to, have them pray for you as well. God's will is perhaps being done and someone more fitting may come along. So, allow God to heal. They say "Time heals all wounds." But in addition, so does God! Post Reply
Lukia^ View Profile History	Feeling of abandonment Posted : 5 Dec, 2013 11:33 PM From your post I gather you are already a very positive person and I like it.Sorry for what happened but take heart and know that God has very good plans for you. It hurts so much when we are abandoned because I believe nothing hurts more than love.But I also feel its good when it happens before getting married(as much as it hurts),than getting married then realizing you cannot cope with the person. The bible says God glorifies Himself in both good and bad. Its good to trust in Him and let His good plans be fulfilled in our lives. The challenges we meet along the way make us better people for the future. Post Reply
genesis75 View Profile History	Feeling of abandonment Posted : 9 Jan, 2014 09:34 PM That is quite like what happened to me. How does it feel when the man you love with whom you invested your emotions and had relationship for two years will eventually tell you that he found someone whom he is so much inlove and yet do not want you to let you go? Unfair and painful isnt it? But over time i realized that the only way through healing is first to forgive ourselves and the person that hurt you and accept that there are things that are not really meant to be. Let God dried up your tears and ask Him for wisdom and guidance. Life is a tough challenge we have to deal with but through wisdom, through prayers and God's guidance, we can make it. Post Reply
View Profile History	Feeling of abandonment Posted : 12 Feb, 2014 08:39 AM I admire the wisdom you got from SUFFERING. Most of those who got a heart broken won�t repay with the same coin or misbehaviour. If I could recommend a person, I WOULD RECOMMEND Genesis (although I know she can speak well for herself: bY HER DEEDS!) You, Genesis, are a good person to be in the company with. I�m glad the person I have seen in you, here. Hope you find what you need (same thing I wish for me). :yay: Post Reply
View Profile History	Feeling of abandonment Posted : 27 Feb, 2014 06:47 AM Wow! That man was so hurt and disappointed, that he left this site... He is not a victim, but he was hurt and some of you know what it is felt. All are seeking the "best" and not always the "perfect" (God is PERECT, but He doesn�t have our human longings or matchmaking dreams). It�s a pity this happens, not only here, but at the streets, at any corner, even in the Church. Love is a gift! God is the giver. I wish you the best, to any of you. :waving: Post Reply
Brigits View Profile History	Feeling of abandonment Posted : 5 Mar, 2014 03:18 AM Sorry for the pain u went thro' Post Reply
jenny0706 View Profile History	Feeling of abandonment Posted : 31 May, 2014 09:27 AM i've been in a relationship for almost 2 yrs to a guy who is 19 yrs older than. My family and friends are against of our relationship. but because i really love him i fought for him against the odds. we are long distance, but he never made feel he is far. he gave me so much love and attention. he cared so much of me,,,,of my life.....but he became bossy, jealous and obsessive. and everytime i will i even small things, like being late to answer his calls or txt he will gets angry and he will always cut our communication....he will just leave me hanging,,,, am always the one who will say sorry, make peace, and make adjustment for him even if its not my fault......i feel that it is unfair for me....but my love for him is greater than his imperfections. Post Reply
View Profile History	Feeling of abandonment Posted : 17 Jul, 2014 02:27 PM Dear, If he cannot control his anger or jealousy he is not good to marry as he sounds a little abusive to me....just saying.:glow: Post Reply
View Profile History	Feeling of abandonment Posted : 17 Jul, 2014 04:26 PM Jenny there is wisdom in the multitude of council. Proverbs 11:14 states, �Where there is no counsel, the people fall; but in the multitude of counselors there is safety.� The word translated �counsel� is a Hebrew nautical term used for steering a ship. The wisdom of godly advisors can help steer us in the right direction. Id simply say:Listen to your friends and family!! RUN!! Post Reply
irc1 View Profile History	Feeling of abandonment Posted : 4 Jun, 2015 03:12 PM So even your profile says you are single, you will still wait for this man?? How many times have you met?? Post Reply
View Profile History	Feeling of abandonment Posted : 5 Jun, 2015 11:07 AM You do realize you are replying to OP written a year ago ? That person is not on this site any longer Post Reply