Because of whatever reason she left you, or maby for whatever reason she is making you feel less than you are.
The female species seems to have a hard time understanding that males value respect more than they do "love" (to a man if you dont show them respect...then you are not being very loveing!)
I suppose the definition of respect varies from person to person, but the point that I am wanting to get accrost is this...if you claim to be a godly woman and your not respectful to the man your with...the story does not add up. I can imiagine some females reading this and wondering who I think I am because I am making a claim like that. Well fortunatly for me its not about who I think that I am, or even who I am, the fact is if you care to open your Bibles to Ephesians 5:22-25...the Bible teaches the same thing that I am saying!
It seems like the majority of women that have picked up a bible, most of them have an idea that they want to find a man of god, that will love them, and treat them like the ladies that they are. But then some of thoes same ladies get the crazy idea that they have little to no responsibility. Then they wonder why there relationship is on the rocks!
Here is the deal guys. Ladies respect the man in your life, men love and protect your woman! Here comes the neat part...the more respect you give to your man then the more value that he is going to place on you.
Maby some people are not understanding what I am saying. Most people understand that there are certain rules that you need to follow when driving. If you come to a yeild sign that means that the other driver has the right of way. So if you are driving 30 miles per hour and you see a sign that tells you to yeild to the other driver, that does not mean that you yeild for the first car and then the second car will yeild for you. A yeild sign indicates that you shoul assume that the other driver has business that is more important than yours.
So, to me, the words "respect, yeild, or submit" they all seem to indicate the same thought.
So back to the title of this post, if you are a guy that has never had a woman leave or disrespect you (namely having the girl criticize your leadership, normaly this is followed by the girl trying to get the man to lead but she will call the shots) if you have never had this happen to you...listen to what I am saying because sometime in your life a guy may ask you for advice concerning a situation such as this.
If your married to a lady like that keeps steping on the male ego, and then she wonders why your upset with her...If your married to a lady like this sorry about that!
But if your not yet married, and the lady in your life is continually disrespecting you. In my oppinion, a lady like that is not displaying biblical qualities that I would like to see in a mate.
So in short, if the lady in yor life acts like that and she leaves...I dont think it is such a bad thing.
What should you do now that she is gone? You should continue to search the Word of God and make yourself better!
With all that said, I understand that it hurts to have your lady friend leave. If you are in a similar situation, I would like for you to take a deep breath and then go for a walk. (both of which can help clear your mind.)
There is a saying that if you love something then let it go, and if it was meant to be then it will come back to you!...but what if your lady friend never comes back? If that happens you can walk away with a smile on your face because now you are abit stronger!
