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A wife's death 2months after the weddingPosted : 11 Mar, 2013 04:21 AMAnybody who could give an advice to a man who loses his wife 2months after they got married. The death was so sudden, the girl has only high fever, all lab works and tests from known experts had been done, results negative. Illness- fever @ 40+ C in 2weeks time and she's with the Lord. |
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A wife's death 2months after the weddingPosted : 13 Mar, 2013 11:55 AMThat's a hell of a kick in the teeth, and I'm fully conscious I'm replying without ever going through it myself, but being a Christian doesn't stop life from throwing bad things at you. Unlike the unbeliever going through the same, at least you know God is control and has His very good reasons for letting it happen; though I can understand if that's of little comfort at this moment in time. If you're angry at God, tell Him, yell at Him, let it out - He's big enough to take it and wants that level of closeness to you, not for you to harbour resentment and bitterness. Those are the times you see God up close. |
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A wife's death 2months after the weddingPosted : 14 Mar, 2013 09:12 PMOne of the hardest things in this life is to lose someone you love. There will be different phases that he will more than likely experience, such as; anger at God, anger at his wife for leaving him, anger at the world, desolation, fear, etc. The thing I would say to him is to breath and just get through one day at a time. I would encourage his family and friends to be there for the weeks and months ahead, it's going to be a long healing process. Most importantly I would tell him that your love for her never leaves you because you always hold her close to your heart. The day will come when you can think about her without the hurt or tears but until that day comes, weep, that is why God gave tears. It is part of the healing, but not forgetting that we need. |
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A wife's death 2months after the weddingPosted : 18 Mar, 2013 07:56 AMi quiet lil bit hard to understand if someone i love leave me (die) because till rite now (doesnt mean i want). i have still complete parents and never had bf who leave me because he pass away. but i just tryin to share my opinion. my fave aunty pass away few months ago. and i wasnt really cry because i believe in God. she was nice person and God is savior for her life. i believe the most save place in this world (out of world) is beside HIM. i been in the situation when i found my ex Bf cheat on me. we already know cheat is never acceptable. just belive in God. never mad at Him. He know what the best for u all, guys |