Author	Thread: Partner Cheated But Still In Love
Admin	Partner Cheated But Still In Love Posted : 11 Jul, 2012 02:08 PM Okay, my exwife separated from me and ended our relationship by moving out of my house and took the kids with her. She got an apartment for her and the kids. Her reason for moving out was that she was afraid of me which didn't make any sense and so I have my suspicions that she was cheating on me but I just didn't know who it was. So one day I decided to drop by her apartment and saw the guy who I suspected her to be cheating with inside her apartment and then I left. A few days later, the exwife started appearing at events that I participate particularly she started showing up for choir practice and started coming back to church because she had stopped for awhile since she moved out from me. I think that that was kind of strange for her to suddenly reappear into her previous social life. She says that she and the guy I saw in her apartment are just friends but i don't beleive her. Even though I saw that guy in her apartment, I still miss her so much and would take her back if she was willing to come back to me. Is this such a good idea to anybody out there as a second opinion for me? Post Reply
View Profile History	Partner Cheated But Still In Love Posted : 13 Jul, 2012 11:04 AM If you still love your wife, tell her and ask her back, she can only agree to come back or say No. If she said no, I would move on with my life get divorced, if a spouse leaves you and won't return or get marriage counseling for your relationship to move forward why quess about what's happening with her and some guy. Post Reply
View Profile History	Partner Cheated But Still In Love Posted : 14 Jul, 2012 05:49 AM Personally, I think there are things you're not saying and a number of pieces to this story that are left out. But if she's not interested in being with you, your desire to take her back is irrelevant. If she left you, as unfortunate as that is, she's done. Post Reply
View Profile History	Partner Cheated But Still In Love Posted : 14 Jul, 2012 07:38 AM I agree. Post Reply
View Profile History	Partner Cheated But Still In Love Posted : 14 Jul, 2012 07:39 AM You have a good point. Post Reply
Mercymay View Profile History	Partner Cheated But Still In Love Posted : 18 Jul, 2012 11:55 PM Maybe she realized you are not to be afraid of? Without your presence in their lives she realized your worth? You are a better man than the other guy, lol! Maybe she showed up to see you and hope for reconciliation? Maybe it is not easy for her to ask you to take her back? (fear of refusal) Why don�t you ask her if she is willing to come back? I support it is a good idea Post Reply