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I miss my ex..
Posted : 19 Apr, 2012 11:18 AM

Its almost 6 months I broke up with my ex but now I still think about him. I am trying be cool. When I am alone, listen to music, I always thinking about him and suddenly that tear come out. Did you felt like that before? This feeling like being hit by a bullet.

I always heard my friend say like this, loving someone that doesn't love you back is like waiting for ship at an airport. I don't even think it will hurt like this. However so I wish to wake up, I can't.

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Posted : 21 Apr, 2012 03:58 PM

It's a bit like when your dog dies, worst feeling in the world. When you get a new puppy you no longer cry about the dog that died.

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Posted : 22 Apr, 2012 03:53 AM

yeah hope so :glow:

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Posted : 23 Apr, 2012 11:01 AM

I was in a long term relationship that lasted two years. After we broke up it took a good six months to a year before I did not miss him. It takes a while, so take your time. Enjoy being single again, spend time with some of your gal pals and have fun. It will get better with time.

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Posted : 25 Apr, 2012 09:08 AM

I agree with i heart. My ex and I separated in 2010, and were separated for a YEAR before the divorce was final. It was final in July of last year. So even though we have only been divorced 9 months, we haven't been together for a year and 9 months. I'm noticing it's a little easier now that I'm on this site meeting new people. There really aren't many places to go here where I live to meet people. This town is really small.



I through divorce recovery classes a while back and I learned that one of the mistakes we sometimes make is thinking we will get over it sooner than we will. It takes time. Every once in a while the hurt still comes back. I don't want to be with my ex though. It's the hurt he caused me and my kids. Our marriage wasn't going well, and he finally told me either I had to leave or he would. I couldn't afford bills there, so I had to leave. Lived with my parents for 6 months til the Lord blessed me with my apartment where I live now.



Keep praying. You may never completely forget the hurt, but the hurt will lessen.

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Posted : 25 Apr, 2012 10:45 AM

ya I enjoy my life so much now. skip dating or involve in relationship in few years, be more matured in relationship,grow in my walk, learn about marriage and mature a bit. Utilize my age and time to enhance my life and improve myself instead. but sometimes I really miss him especially when I alone and see few couple( you know what I mean :glow:). suddenly all the memorize appear. yes iheart, its take time. thanks for encouragement :). The best is yet to me. Love is patient :bunny:

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Posted : 30 Apr, 2012 06:57 PM

Girl it's been about seven months for me since the break up and I still have crying fits. I'm in the same boat as you. Did your ex speak of marriage to you? Did he act like you were most likely the one he would commit to? Mine did. And then cut it off. I think that makes it twice as worse. Men need to not play around with that marriage talk unless they are dead serious and ready to commit.

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Posted : 2 May, 2012 10:01 PM

you are true, sis. sometimes, I hope we can back to each others again. He talk about marriage and child. He respect me. never say bad thing to me. we share hobbies and he make always me . after everything is done, he leave me, now I decide be a single. when some guy talk bad to me , that time I always thinking about him. Now he leave me with great pain. Its hurt missing someone those not with you anymore.

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Posted : 3 Jul, 2012 09:49 PM

I hope your heart is healing well.



If we did not love so much we would not hurt so much. Count it a blessing that God has given you so much love because we cannot have love without the pain that comes with it.



If there is one great guy out there like your ex, there has to be more.



Take great care!

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