Author	Thread: Almost not Single
singlefran View Profile History	Almost not Single Posted : 31 Mar, 2012 12:09 AM thats how i consider my status these days.......my heart had been broken twice the last very personal to talk which kept me single 6 months now and yet still afraid to move on because am wondering if the next guy will be the same or worst. I am a great man, i will never hurt you....why furnish a lady with lies Post Reply
singlefran View Profile History	Almost not Single Posted : 31 Mar, 2012 12:12 AM I might be young and a final year under graduate but i think these experience have showered my hear with concrete :( Post Reply
View Profile History	Almost not Single Posted : 31 Mar, 2012 04:13 AM Dear Fran, In the words of the Psalmist: It is better to take refuge in the LORD than to trust in princes. Sounds like your trust has been broken, which has happened to most of us. We hear the nice things we want to hear because we are built for that kind of openness ... with our Lord. When we hear some young man repeat His words, we latch on quickly, putting our trust in man rather than waiting on God to say "This is the flawed but growing man I have for you". Instead we latch on to frogs that have learned to wear crowns, thinking... all they need is me and they will turn into a real prince. I am still learning this too, my sister. Don't put expectations early in a relationship... relax....let time and the Lord reveal the true prince He has for you and don't be anxious about being single. Better is a long wait and true trust and guidance than having some ring on your finger from someone who does not wait on the Lord, and then live in agony. :bouncy: Post Reply
singlefran View Profile History	Almost not Single Posted : 31 Mar, 2012 06:14 AM thanks for your response.... i find my self much happier these days being single than in a relationship. the worst thing about what i went through was this happened at a time in my life where i was buried deep in the earth's core with no hands reaching towards me, and to know the one you trusted and was growing a love for was the one willing to hurt you. I have learnt in life honesty seems to be very difficult because i cannot find a guy today to talk to without him telling me a lie and me finding out. Lies to me are unnecessary and takes up too much of your time to remember what was said before. I try to accept reality today and stop living in denial. but the question is, is reality ready to accept me? Post Reply