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Posted : 7 Nov, 2011 01:23 PM

how many people have gotten into a relationship.. only to find out almost a year later all that person did was lie to you and use you. then after you find that out your whole world comes crashing down.

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Posted : 7 Nov, 2011 01:55 PM

I know God is now working on me after this. I had a huge fall back. I was with a guy for almost a year. After 6 months we decided to live together.( sin yes i know). but i had no where else to go. I was working. He wasnt because he was trying to get disability. I supported him from April til July of this year. Come to find out all he did is use me. I promise to never let myself get in that situation again. I know God is working on me. Im glad I was able to listen to klove during these times cause it helped alot.

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Posted : 9 Nov, 2011 09:26 PM

In 2010 wasted 7 MONTHS talking to a young lady who SAID that she was single and that I meant so much to her.



Looking back I can see the grace of God in that I did not end-up with someone who is a LIAR. ( Even her own mom told me this was the type of person her daughter was.)



This young lady was with a guy who she SAID was just her "roommate" but really he was her ex and they were even having sex together every once in a while. Form what I can tell- even though I never met the young lady in person- is that he roommate/"ex" is/was the abusive type in that he would work and didn't want her to work- likely in fear that she might meet soomeone BETTER.



I know God does work on us to take us back to the Bible to see what it satys a GOOD relationship is.



Relationships are not always easy. But if one like your or my profile PLEASE be SINGLE and not living with your ex.

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Posted : 23 Nov, 2011 05:52 PM

im only living with my ex cause i dont have another place to go, but my ex and i are only friends. he sleeps in his bed i sleep on the couch.

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Posted : 25 Nov, 2011 09:20 PM

Hi there! I'm Liza, from the Philippines. Being your sister in Christ Jesus I'll pray for your so that the Holy Spirit will give you strength in dealing with fear and with your situation. I know it is so hard to feel that way don't know where to go. All you have to do is cry out to God and just ask anything.



Living with your ex- is just prolonging your agony kept on hurting yourself when you know it is wrong to be with a man if not yet married.



This is just a sharing...

1 John 1

Light and Darkness, Sin and Forgiveness

5 This is the message we have heard from him and declare to you: God is light; in him there is no darkness at all. 6 If we claim to have fellowship with him and yet walk in the darkness, we lie and do not live out the truth. 7 But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus, his Son, purifies us from all[b] sin.



8 If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us. 9 If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness. 10 If we claim we have not sinned, we make him out to be a liar and his word is not in us.

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Posted : 25 Nov, 2011 09:20 PM

Hi there! I'm Liza, from the Philippines. Being your sister in Christ Jesus I'll pray for your so that the Holy Spirit will give you strength in dealing with fear and with your situation. I know it is so hard to feel that way don't know where to go. All you have to do is cry out to God and just ask anything.



Living with your ex- is just prolonging your agony kept on hurting yourself when you know it is wrong to be with a man if not yet married.



This is just a sharing...

1 John 1

Light and Darkness, Sin and Forgiveness

5 This is the message we have heard from him and declare to you: God is light; in him there is no darkness at all. 6 If we claim to have fellowship with him and yet walk in the darkness, we lie and do not live out the truth. 7 But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus, his Son, purifies us from all[b] sin.



8 If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us. 9 If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness. 10 If we claim we have not sinned, we make him out to be a liar and his word is not in us.

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Posted : 27 Nov, 2011 04:59 PM

my ex and i are friends and are completely ok with that we are more roomates then anything..and hopefully ill be working soon and will be able to get my own place.

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