Author	Thread: Should rejections break your Heart?
Admin	Should rejections break your Heart? Posted : 2 Sep, 2011 12:14 PM I have a coworker friend, who never has married and had no childen. She had a friendship with a Christian man for about 8 months. She thought he wanted to marry her, and he just seen her as a friend. When she talked about him, I told her he maybe only see her as a Christian friend. He moved from the relationship because he seen she wanted romance. She tells the story He broke her heart. Well, how can you break someone heart, when you really weren't into that person romantically! Sometimes I think some Women just like to have a story of romance to tell someone. :excited: Post Reply
nightfarmer View Profile History	Should rejections break your Heart? Posted : 2 Sep, 2011 11:01 PM it happens alot,,, my sister once said i should get some femal friends ,,but honestly if you try to be a friend ladies suddenly expect more .its very difficult to be just friends with a woman..they wont except it ,and most often blame the guy for hurting them...complicated,, but on the otherside the best love ever began as friendship...i think everone needs to except reality every friend cant be alove... if they expect that then the most friends they will ever have is one.. if the put pressure to force the friendship into love ,they will like ly force the friend away ,he has no choice.. lots of emotions out here ,need to be resonable also,,alow friend ships ,if ur blessed you could have one love and 10 friends,,,but expect to much ,you may have nothing untill you find the one if you dont push him away expecting to much to fast,,, better to pray for wisdom:glow: Post Reply
View Profile History	Should rejections break your Heart? Posted : 3 Sep, 2011 01:42 AM Yeah, this one is tough. I had a female friend, I had even told her that she was only a friend. A woman commented on my pictures in a favorable way and my friend started having negtive attitudes with me. When I said because of her hurtfull attitude toward me that a break was in order, she began writing nasty text messages and telling others bad and untrue things about me, really painful for both sides. I understand that many women grow up being emersed in the fairytale, that she's a princess and her prince with come to sweep her off her feet one day. How disillusioning this can be in todays world, it's just not reality but many women retain this fantasy in their adult life. Being friends in a marriage relationship is critical because one will not always be lovable or loving when its needed. But if men and women can't maintain a friendship outside of marriage, it wont be maintained within a marrige, YIKES! Help us Lord Jesus to find just one good friend of the oposite gender.... Post Reply
bryan1608 View Profile History	Should rejections break your Heart? Posted : 16 Sep, 2011 04:17 PM i've actually been on both sides of this once each over the years, I'm lots more careful now. Post Reply
View Profile History	Should rejections break your Heart? Posted : 18 Sep, 2011 04:43 PM I don't know, but it sounds like she was into him romantically even if he wasn't. Nobody likes being rejected and the level of disappointment they have is matched by their crushed hopes and expectations. Sounds like hers were pretty high. Post Reply