all looking for the best one,,,inthe process hurting or dissapointing many nice people ..i hope everyone can understand you can be a wonderfull CHRISTIAN yet not be the pest for a particular person..
at same time wish every one could be friends first rather than rush for commitment ,takes time to know some one,,
sadly to many get over looked because they dont take the time to know them personally,,,and yet even worse commit before realy knowing the person then a painfull situation..so many people very complicated ,many good intentions yet also many get hurt from the same good intentions,,,,,dont we all wish we could get a email from GOD with a life map attached so we can avoid all the miss turns :angel:
Thatnis our dilemma...we can wait too long, we can rush into it...timing is everything! It would be great to hear that voice say here's your answer. Too bad the Israelites decided they didn't want to hear God anymore!
So many people wear their heart on their sleeve, so to speak.
Meaning they get hurt very easy.
Online dating is not easy.
I was on a Paid site before CDFF.
I met a man online long time ago we talked for about 8 months on emails and phone on and off but not too often.
He was a minister and he was going throu too many women, so I never really desired to meet they man in person.
He lost contact with me last February. Then to my suprise
out of no where he contact me by phone Yesterday and talked almost 2 hours before hanging up. He kept my number.
You can not really know someone just by talking and Not
spending One on One time in person. I just talked as friends
he said he likes how I talk about things from A-Z. Most men that get to know me say I am good friend to have.
Sometimes people are just to be friends, Maybe they are not suppose to be your chosen Mate. So do not get So excited about everyone that you meet ONLINE. Many are looking for Just friendship. NOT spouse or Intimacy.
So many people wear their heart on their sleeve, so to speak.
Meaning they get hurt very easy.
Online dating is not easy.
I was on a Paid site before CDFF.
I met a man online long time ago we talked for about 8 months on emails and phone on and off but not too often.
He was a minister and he was going throu too many women, so I never really desired to meet they man in person.
He lost contact with me last February. Then to my suprise
out of no where he contact me by phone Yesterday and talked almost 2 hours before hanging up. He kept my number.
You can not really know someone just by talking and Not
spending One on One time in person. I just talked as friends
he said he likes how I talk about things from A-Z. Most men that get to know me say I am good friend to have.
Sometimes people are just to be friends, Maybe they are not suppose to be your chosen Mate. So do not get So excited about everyone that you meet ONLINE. Many are looking for Just friendship. NOT spouse or Intimacy.
So many people wear their heart on their sleeve, so to speak.
Meaning they get hurt very easy.
Online dating is not easy.
I was on a Paid site before CDFF.
I met a man online long time ago we talked for about 8 months on emails and phone on and off but not too often.
He was a minister and he was going throu too many women, so I never really desired to meet they man in person.
He lost contact with me last February. Then to my suprise
out of no where he contact me by phone Yesterday and talked almost 2 hours before hanging up. He kept my number.
You can not really know someone just by talking and Not
spending One on One time in person. I just talked as friends
he said he likes how I talk about things from A-Z. Most men that get to know me say I am good friend to have.
Sometimes people are just to be friends, Maybe they are not suppose to be your chosen Mate. So do not get So excited about everyone that you meet ONLINE. Many are looking for Just friendship. NOT spouse or Intimacy.
True. I feel so sad about this situation like this. Sometimes we are about to fall for someone here and it will change something worse. At first things run smoothly then later it became worse. Maybe because we rushing it. Finding love takes time and need a lot of wisdom to see the best one for us..
I also see that earthly love fade and never been perfect but the love of the Lord is forever and perfect..
Aside from that God never turn his back but sometimes someone we love can do it.. That's the reality about love and life..
thats true, i experience that too.. everything is on perfect time.. God said on Jeremiah 29:11 "for i know the plans i have for you, plan to prosper you and not to harm you, plan to give you hopw and future.." sometimes we (human follow our own desires/will we set aside the will of God in our life... just wait and wait.. for waiting is not wasting of time in (Romans 5:4-5) King James Version (KJV)
4And patience, experience; and experience, hope:
5And hope maketh not ashamed; because the love of God is shed abroad in our hearts by the Holy Ghost which is given unto us.