Author	Thread: Am I the only one who feels this way?
Admin	Am I the only one who feels this way? Posted : 15 Aug, 2011 05:21 PM I've been on here off and on with no luck, not in a smigit of luck. I get to talking to someone and they say we have a lot in common and then all of sudden they stop talking to me or delete their account. I mean I was really starting to like this girl on here the past couple days and out of the blue she deletes her account. It's really left me heart broken. I know everyone would tell me there's more fish in the sea, but what about when I'm 25 and have never even gotten a date with a girl. Feels like I'm going to be single forever. I'm so passed feeling like giving up. I'm at the point where I'm afraid to even write a women because I just know it's going to end in rejection, that it's not going to go anywhere, not even friendship. I don't know if it's because I'm not good looking enough, I'm not skinny enouh or in shape, if I'm not funny enough, that I don't have a job because I'm in school, because I still live at home because I don't have a job/money, if I'm just not a very social guy. I love talking but I hate it just dieing before I've even been given a chance. It's like no one cares enough to give me a chance. It's like if you don't know what women want or how to talk to them than forget you. Just feels like everything I do is wrong. Also it's really hard to find someone who lives in the same state as me so I guess I'm just plain out of luck from the get go. I keep praying, keep trying to have faith I'll find someone, but it just feels like it's never going to happen. I'll probably endup deleting this account once again, maybe for good this time... Post Reply
View Profile History	Am I the only one who feels this way? Posted : 15 Aug, 2011 05:31 PM I really don't know why I keep trying because no one is going to think I'm good enough anyway. They may not tell me to my face of course but I know they're thinking it. I've been alone so long though I don't know if I'd like being with someone anyway, I like my space and my own things. I really do want someone but I guess it's just not meant to be for some people. If I try or not I'm probably going to put off dating for a long while but I feel like if I don't stay open to it I make endup hardeming my heart to love completely. Guess I'll die alone and a virgin it seems... Post Reply
teach_ib View Profile History	Am I the only one who feels this way? Posted : 16 Aug, 2011 09:14 PM I can appreciate what you are saying and feeling. Don't give up on your dreams and desires. Maybe God is letting you wait to get through college and ready to support that wife and family you are planning for. If your goal is to become a software engine, school should be your focus right now. I am a Computer systems engineer....it's tough to go to school and juggle a family...and technical career fields require a lot of extra time....but it can be really rewarding. Here's a couple suggestions to make your profile a little more appealing: Post a good picture of you smiling...you have good looks...a smile would strengthen them. Probably reduce some of the geek speak...too much techie talk up front...I understand it because that's my area of expertise...others probably will think they have to be a rocket scientist to communicate with you. Keep participating in church activities and maybe find other churches that have college and career groups. If there are Christian orgs on campus (Campus Crusades for Christ, etc) get involved...even if they don't completely align with your core beliefs, there may be someone there that may be in agreement. When I was in Korea for a year, I joined a Friday night group sponsored by the Chapel...people of all ages and denominations...it was the best thing I could have done to continue to grow during that phase of my life. Keep the faith...God wants to give you the desire of your heart. Post Reply
View Profile History	Am I the only one who feels this way? Posted : 17 Aug, 2011 06:10 AM You are Young...... Keep the faith. Be Hopeful God will help you find a mate. This is the Internet and many things happen to people of All ages. Many people are not sincere here about a lasting relationship. and have all kinds of reasons for being online in dates sites. Keep you options open and do Not depend on the datesites Only to find a good mate. There are plenty good places to meet a nice young lady. Book stores, coffee shops, Church, College and other places you may like going too. :angel: Post Reply