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mercyg
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Broken hearted.Posted : 25 May, 2011 02:04 PMIam a lady of 30 years,single,kind at heart,loving,i loved assisting people but they always pay me back in a bad way,i have decided not to have anything to do with any man,anytime iam in a relationship,i always give me love,my heart,sacrifices all i have just to please the person but iam not always appreciated,The man i have been dating for close to 9 years,i travelled out,he proposed marriage to me bcos i loved him so much and wants to spend the rest of my life with him,i aggreed to his proposal,Always asking me for money and so many things,there is none dat i didn`t do even to for his brother,i confided in him,trusted him,last week,i tried his number was not going thru till today,have been calling his brother`s number cos i was so worried while his number is not available,his brother told me dat he has not heard from him either,have been calling his friend too,dis week monday in d afternoon,i called his friend again and he told me dat has my fiance not called,dat he called him and dat he told him to try to call me and he told him ok,but never called me,he called him friend but did not call me till today,i was thinking,i couldn`t sleep,what should i do now? i dont know what i have done to him to deserve dis kind of treatmen,anytim i see men,i always have dis feelings dat they are all d same,I need an advice. |
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Broken hearted.Posted : 25 May, 2011 02:20 PMListen to me there is a reason why we are encouraged to guard our hearts. This will only lead to bitterness in your heart if it is not there already and that puts up a barrier between you and God and your prayers won't be heard. Don't let bad experiences color your impression of men that's what Satan wants and you may lose out on the High priest that God has intended for you all along. Carry these burdens to the Lord and let Him heal your heart. The guy i was in love with went on a missions trip met someone and married her and never told me. It made me want to hate all men.But if you hurt someone would you want them to hate all women because of you. I am praying for you but love God and let him be your completion and one day the man designed for you will come. Stop giving yourself and spreading yourself thin to guys. It's great that you have that capacity to love but if you keep giving all of yourself there's gonna be nothing left for the "one". What the guy did was rotten but turn to Christ. You are in my prayers.:angel: |
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EVANGELISTCLEMSY
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Broken hearted.Posted : 4 Jul, 2011 02:01 AMMy dear friend...my only advice to you, is for you to PRAY for Gods ''DIVINE DIRECTION''...It is very important to PRAY... |