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nepb47

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Posted : 19 May, 2011 08:36 AM

My ex is getting married today. I thought I didn't care but now my emotions are in such turmoil, angry, sad, relieved, regretful, angry....Thinking about it just stirs up old memories (our marriage broke 14 years ago) and old pain. I want to yell and scream, but I won't. I just need to stay busy and get over it.



Thanks for "listening".

NB

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nepb47

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Posted : 19 May, 2011 02:17 PM

See I feel better already. There is nothing like doing a service for some one else to get you out of a pity party. I took my mom to a doctor appointment then pulled weeds for her, now I feel 100% better!



What do you do to get out of a pity party?



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riveroflife1

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Posted : 19 May, 2011 02:24 PM

I went through that when my ex got re-married last year...but I figure, better her than me.

it's been almost 9 years, it's normal to feel like that.



when i feel all "pity party-ish" I just cry and get it over with, then it seems to renew my strength and my outlook changes.



I dunno, weird but it works.

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bcpianogal

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Posted : 19 May, 2011 09:20 PM

I cry, pray, and move on. Had to do that just a few days ago, actually.

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Posted : 26 May, 2011 08:58 PM

I start playing the fiddle

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