Author	Thread: You can't handle the truth
Admin	You can't handle the truth Posted : 5 Feb, 2012 10:12 AM Women say that they want an honest man who does not play games, but in reality that is not what they go after. I have seen so many times where women chase after a guy who tells them up front that they are not interested in marriage, and then they are shocked when he never gets around to proposing. But, they will never go out with someone who states up front that they want to get married because they think that we are too desperate. Women like guys that are confident, and I can understand why, but they never try to understand why the guy is confident in the first place. Their motivation behind their confidence is very important. I have seen plenty of men who are very confident around women because they have no desire to get married. It�s easy not to be shy when you have nothing to lose, even I can do that. True confidence comes from knowing what you are doing. There are a lot of men who are not confident because they don�t know what they are doing, but that does not mean that we can never learn. Women also complain that they can�t find a guy who is serious about marriage. The problem is that you run away from anyone who states up front that they are interested in marriage. You want to start out as �just friends�, there mustn�t be any hint of desiring the theoretical possibility that there might be an outside chance that there might me something more than just friends. In other words, we have to lie to you. We can�t be honest and open about our intentions, we have to keep them to ourselves. I hear so many times on these forums where women complain about there not being any good men, that they can�t find anyone who is willing to treat them honestly and to settle down in marriage. If you want an honest man, then stop running away from them when they tell you the truth. Stop chasing after guys who lie to you just so that you won�t run away. You say you want the truth, but you can�t handle the truth. Post Reply
View Profile History	You can't handle the truth Posted : 9 Feb, 2012 02:52 PM Cobbler I did not chase after men. They made contact and I communicated because I liked their conversation. Doing good communication you can find out a lot about a man. I realized they were not far me. So, I moved on and some still made contact until they go tired of it. Just because someone emails and communicates does not mean there will be a relationship. I do not have a problem getting contacted or emails. On this site or any other Christian site I been On. It is a problem with finding the Right man. Withoug settleing for Just any Old man. I had Chemistry for the men I communicated with. Many women feel they need to have that Chemistry to initiate communicating. Sorry, that is just the way it is. No...I do not Chase guys. :laugh: Post Reply
View Profile History	You can't handle the truth Posted : 9 Feb, 2012 02:53 PM Well, cobb if it were me, I'd only say I was interested in getting married if asked. I don't know how it comes up in your interactions with women, but it seems that when it does they go bye bye, so I'd conclude that if you want them to stick around, don't bring it up unless asked. You can pretty much bet that all women want to get married, and since you already know you want to get married to, it doesn't really sound that important to discuss untill much later. I mean they can be a pretty fickle and unforgiving bunch soon's you say or bring up the wrong thing, and this seems to be one of those things, but that's just me. No matter what, I'm on your side. Post Reply
View Profile History	You can't handle the truth Posted : 9 Feb, 2012 02:55 PM Even if I frustrate the bejesus out of you in the process :laugh: Post Reply
View Profile History	You can't handle the truth Posted : 9 Feb, 2012 03:10 PM Asperger's Syndrome Forums and support groups http://forums.delphiforums.com/aspautchrist/start http://www.christianforums.com/f445/ http://www.networktherapy.com/resources/support_groups/topic.asp?id=391 This is a forum http://www.aspieweb.net/autism-aspergers-christian-healing/ Aspergers and being Christian : Asperger's Syndrome Forum www.psychforums.com/asperger-syndrome/topic51974.html -Similarto Aspergers and being Christian :For those who have been diagnosed later in life and werent aware that they had traits of aspergers.. were there any cases where this made ... http://christianblogs.christianet.com/1112913823.htm http://www.christianforums.com/f445/ Cobbler, maybe you can find what you're seeking by checking out these forums and asking questions. God bless, ella Post Reply
View Profile History	You can't handle the truth Posted : 3 Apr, 2012 11:24 AM Proverbs 23:7 Amplified Bible (AMP) 7 - For as he thinks in his heart, so is he... If you believe that women can't handle the truth, you are certain to meet women of that ilk if that is where your mind and heart remain. It's God that keeps us in peace.... Post Reply

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