Author	Thread: Always alone
Admin	Always alone Posted : 3 Mar, 2011 07:14 PM It is so painful for God to give you a desire for something you will never be able to achieve. It is not that I have never met any good women, it is that I do not understand how to start a relationship. I have been given a lot of advice, much of it conflicting, but I don�t understand the advice. My favorite is what gets passed off as God�s way of finding a wife. The saying is that God will bring you a wife, so don�t worry about it. But, He�s not just going to plop a wife in your lap, so you have to be �proactive� and ask women out. So, basically what it comes down to is this: You beat your head against the wall asking the wrong women out over and over again, being disappointed and breaking your heart over and over again until finally God feels sorry for you and brings you a wife. There is nothing right or wrong that anyone does, it�s all just �up to God� when he feels like bringing her around. I will never understand what it takes, so I will always be alone. Proverbs 15:13 (NASB) 13 A joyful heart makes a cheerful face, But when the heart is sad, the spirit is broken. James 2:15-17 (NASB) 15 If a brother or sister is without clothing and in need of daily food, 16 and one of you says to them, "Go in peace, be warmed and be filled," and yet you do not give them what is necessary for their body, what use is that? 17 Even so faith, if it has no works, is dead, being by itself. Post Reply
simplyme_jaz View Profile History	Always alone Posted : 17 Mar, 2011 09:47 AM Hi Ms. Beautiful thanks for your kind words,but i felt thats too much.I dont deserve it im still a peace of work that not yet finished.when i said those important things that i need to obey and really do God wants us to do,i need to apply it in my daily life for i know thats the only time i deserve to be called "daughter of Christ". Anyway thanks so much i know your beautiful person too inside and out:glow: Luv u too:hearts: Post Reply
View Profile History	Always alone Posted : 17 Mar, 2011 01:06 PM Well, what really helped me, was to become friends with nice Christian women, without the purpose of forming a relationship. It gave me a deeper understanding of the femaie soul and what they do expect from a christian husband. It also helped me to analyze where I go wrong sometimes. I learned a lot about myself in the process. Post Reply
View Profile History	Always alone Posted : 18 Mar, 2011 01:12 AM Cobbler, MsMarvel is looking for you. Post Reply
View Profile History	Always alone Posted : 18 Mar, 2011 11:13 PM Sorry, forgive me, Chevy. This post is quite old, I have talked to Cobbler since then! I had only wanted to check up on him, make sure he was doing alright. I had sort of just noticed these new posts. Thank you so much for your help, Chevy, and everyone. Post Reply
View Profile History	Always alone Posted : 1 Apr, 2011 01:04 AM :purpleangel:IT'S SAD WHEN YOU LOVE someone but you always become an option....and when you become unlucky in the name of love. i'm wishing to have someone who is born again christian like me....who love to serve OUR ALMIGHTY FATHER,MAN WHO'S NOT JUST BEILIVING IN HIM BUT ALSO HAVE FAITH IN HIM. GOD WILL PROVIDE BUT BUT WE NEED TO DO SOMETHING ALSO & GOD DO THE REST. :purpleangel:it's sad when you always felt alone....sometimes your looking a rainbow also to brighten your life. Post Reply
View Profile History	Always alone Posted : 1 Apr, 2011 06:05 AM Say you never get married. So what? Say you get run over by a bus tomorrow and all this worrying was just a big giant waste. Live your life and do what makes you happy. If you're not happy, finding a girlfriend isn't going to fix that. Pursuing a closer personal relationship with God though is the exact opposite. Neither a waste of time nor disappointing. Close your eyes and without being angry tell Him how you feel and what you think. Whatever comes to mind or heart. You'll feel much better and be better prepared to be the right guy for the right girl. Wife or no wife, I just want to see you happy just being yourself bro. I mean that and I'm praying for you. Post Reply
View Profile History	Always alone Posted : 1 Apr, 2011 06:15 AM I�m sorry but I really get frustrated with all of this, it doesn�t matter if you are alone and not married garbage. Read Ecclesiastes 9:7-9 (NASB) 7 Go then, eat your bread in happiness and drink your wine with a cheerful heart; for God has already approved your works. 8 Let your clothes be white all the time, and let not oil be lacking on your head. 9 Enjoy life with the woman whom you love all the days of your fleeting life which He has given to you under the sun; for this is your reward in life and in your toil in which you have labored under the sun. For the entire book Solomon states that everything here on earth is meaningless except four things: 1. God. 2. Profit from your labor. 3. Enjoying the good things in life 4. Enjoying the blessing of a wife. Yes, we must trust in God and grow closer to him, but we must also live down here. This whole trend of saying that all we need is God is just simply Christian apathy. You can only do so much alone before you get tired of yourself. You will find that out as you get older. Post Reply
View Profile History	Always alone Posted : 1 Apr, 2011 07:08 AM Do you think that because you don't have a wife that you cannot be happy? Post Reply
View Profile History	Always alone Posted : 1 Apr, 2011 07:15 AM This whole trend of saying that all we need is God is just simply Christian apathy. And what does that mean exactly? It's like saying 'this whole trend of saying we need food is just human apathy.' It doesn't change the fact that it's true and it's only apathetic if you go about it apathetically. Post Reply
View Profile History	Always alone Posted : 1 Apr, 2011 07:23 AM 'You can only do so much alone before you get tired of yourself' That's why you can't rely on yourself or other people or things to make you happy. All good things come from having a close relationship with God so don't discount that or think it can't do that much and then move on. Post Reply

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