Author	Thread: Wondering
Admin	Wondering Posted : 20 Dec, 2010 07:43 PM You meet someone special. You have some wonderful phone conversations, some great dates. He tells you that he really likes you. He is a perfect gentleman. He tells you he wants to capture your heart the last time you talk and then you never hear from him again?? Any thoughts?? Post Reply
i_live_in_canada View Profile History	Wondering Posted : 22 Dec, 2010 12:44 AM That would be strange! I would contact him and ask " Hey are you alive and just being a jerk or did you die on me". Nothing wrong with getting to the point. That would definitely be what I would do in that situation. I might tone it down a bit but would not let it go with out knowing he was alive. I wouldn't necessary care to know why he was not interested if that was the case. Post Reply
View Profile History	Wondering Posted : 22 Dec, 2010 04:04 AM Live in canada, I e-mailed him with no answer from him. I guess that's the answer - no answer. Post Reply
Mercymay View Profile History	Wondering Posted : 22 Dec, 2010 05:23 AM Maybe at the moment troubles came up and have to be settled first before working on capturing your heart. I believe every person is different on how we tackle issues in our life. There are issues that is nothing to one but momentous to another. If the relationship has been on for say 6 months to a year or more, I think there is a need to give a chance, there might be indecisions on the other person but who knows after the storm he comes out with stronger commitment. I think when you fall deeply in love with a person, love covers all wrongs, even this stopping communication for a while. If it takes a while to fall in love, why not wait a little before closing doors? Might be he is communicating with someone else who appears to be much better than you are haha but in the long run he will realize � then he decides to come back learning his lessons. If you decide to look or wish for someone else, there is no guarantee you will find someone who will not be doing the same thing. What if he is really the one but just having troubles at the moment, puzzled, lost, depressed, etc...we never know. Post Reply
View Profile History	Wondering Posted : 22 Dec, 2010 08:59 AM Mercymay, if that is true, then he should communicate that. Just putting things on hold without letting the other know why is not very kind. Post Reply
View Profile History	Wondering Posted : 22 Dec, 2010 09:14 AM It isn't very kind, but you can't control that. All you can do is move on. Post Reply
i_live_in_canada View Profile History	Wondering Posted : 22 Dec, 2010 11:11 AM GodsGirl1965 Sorry if I came off as not caring. I was very tired when posting that. If you e-mailed him and he did not reply then yes that is all you can do. It is rude and not very mature to just ignore like that. He should have politely said some thing. Who knows what was going on in his mind but you are better off with out some one like that. Oh and also if some one comes on too strong when you first meet that should give you warning signs. If they do that for you when they don't really know you then they will do that for the next lady. Trust me on that one. What you want is a man that is stable and grounded. One that is nice and kind but not desperate and wanting to rush things. If he is impatient then he will move on to some one else once he finds out you won't be rushed. Post Reply
View Profile History	Wondering Posted : 22 Dec, 2010 02:54 PM I agree with you again Cobbler!! live in canada - I didn't think it was harsh. I think we all had negative experiences. I know it's time to move on! It's just hard because I felt like I really clicked with him!! It would be just so nice to have an answer but maybe that wouldn't help me anyway!! Thanks everyone! Post Reply

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