Author	Thread: Does anyone else besides me feel this way?
Admin	Does anyone else besides me feel this way? Posted : 9 Oct, 2010 09:16 PM Like no one on here is truely interested in you? It's like no one is ever serious about me and they're talking to several other people. I haven't found anyone on here yet who was genuinely interested in me and who I can have great conversations with. Most conversations endup dieing before they even start. Also a lot of women on here seem shallow. They want a guy who's really good looking, athletic, makes great money, etc. It's like I'm never good enough for anyone. I'm really starting to feel like there's no one for me. I know God has a plan for my life but I don't know if it includes a woman or not but my deepest desire above all is to serve the Lord with all my mind, body and soul. But I have always desired a good loving woman to love me and start a family with. My entire life I've dreamed of what true love is like. Also I really want children to love and watch grow. I'm not sure I'll make a good mate or father but all I know is my heart desires for me to be both and I will love my wife and children with all my heart. Post Reply
View Profile History	Does anyone else besides me feel this way? Posted : 11 Oct, 2010 10:15 AM I shouldn't let things get to me but I do. Like my sister is already married with three kids and one on the way. My male cousin who's close to my age is married and the other one who's two years younger is engaged. It's just like everyone is finding love and all. My entire life everything has came late. A little dew to me maturing socially slower than others but also because of my parents. Like I got my permit at 15 but I didn't get my license till I was 19 because my parents wouldn't let me practice driving much and never would take me to take the test again. When I finally went and took the test at 19 the black instructor was really rude and told me I couldn't take it because I didn't have an up to date insurance statement in my car. So I went back when I got one to take it again and lucky she didn't find a reason to not let me take it. Well I took it and when it was done she said I barely passed. I graduated high school two years late because I got held back in kindergarten and the 9th grade. I'm really not trying to tell my life story here but it's just been on thing after another in my life. I feel like a complete failure most days. Post Reply
View Profile History	Does anyone else besides me feel this way? Posted : 11 Oct, 2010 08:08 PM I'm sorry to hear that.. Just a thought tho, maybe the right woman God sent to you doesn't join this site, maybe you will meet her on your church or somewhere else =) Post Reply
View Profile History	Does anyone else besides me feel this way? Posted : 11 Oct, 2010 09:43 PM Dont give up .God has a loving companion for you. When you least expected it will come to you. Seek his direction and plan for your life. Post Reply
View Profile History	Does anyone else besides me feel this way? Posted : 12 Oct, 2010 10:16 AM Cool you need to man up! I doubt any woman on this site wishes to enter a relationship with a whimpering puppy. You are still young and after reading some of your posts I do not believe you are mature enough yet to handle a relationship that leads to marriage. Cool, be cool and step back. Put your covetous desire to marry away (give it to the Lord) and just look for a female friend and learn about yourself, your needs and desires as well as her needs and desires ( non-sexual desires that is ). I have been married IT IS TOUGH. I am a father and being a father is TOUGH. Put away your overly romantic and idealistic vision of marriage and open your eyes and see the daily struggles the married couples around you are involved in. AND DO NOT FOOLISHLY BELIEVE YOUR FANTASY MARRIAGE WILL BE DIFFERENT. Marriage is a hard road to walk cool, a very hard road. I will pray that the scales will fall from your eyes so that you may see clearly before you seriously begin your holy quest for a wife. Post Reply
View Profile History	Does anyone else besides me feel this way? Posted : 12 Oct, 2010 11:31 AM I know marriage isn't easy. I know this because I've seen how much my parents have faught and how much they have had to sacrifice to make things work. I know life isn't easier married but I'd rather spend my life with the one I love than spend my days a bachelour. I'm in no rush but I desire deeply to someday soon have a wife and eventually a family. I'm learning to take things one day at a time and I am slowly but surely maning up as you call it. I'm still learning to put things that don't matter aside and take care of business if you will. I know being married means you have to think about your wife before youself and especially your kids if you have them. Yes I am a romantic, a hopeless on as you can see, but there is more than sex I know. My hormones long for that intimacy and affection but my heart longs more than anything to just know love. To know someone else love me and that I am their everything. Post Reply
riveroflife1 View Profile History	Does anyone else besides me feel this way? Posted : 12 Oct, 2010 06:20 PM what you are going through is only for a season, try to endure the best you can without compromising or giving up. Each time you get through it, it will be easier for the next time. Like Pixy said, we are ALL going through the same thing. Post Reply
View Profile History	Does anyone else besides me feel this way? Posted : 12 Oct, 2010 07:56 PM What ever happened to looking at a persons heart instead of their looks or what they have to offer. I would rather be poor and happy with someone who loved the Lord and me than with someone who was rich and miserable and could careless about the Lord or me. Just my thought. Don't mean to offend anyone. Post Reply
View Profile History	Does anyone else besides me feel this way? Posted : 13 Oct, 2010 05:39 AM YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY CORRECT. I believe that the Lord will never reveal our hearts unless the one looking for it is worthy of our love. Post Reply
View Profile History	Does anyone else besides me feel this way? Posted : 13 Oct, 2010 07:02 AM Cool if you do not bridle your sexual needs and your out of proportion need to marry, you are going to suffer a very painful fools reward. ( I was once you and boy oh boy did I suffer a fools reward) Besides if it is Gods will that you marry which seems to be the case -- you are demonstrating a sinful lack of faith in the power of the Lord. Man up cool and wait upon the Lord! Post Reply
View Profile History	Does anyone else besides me feel this way? Posted : 13 Oct, 2010 04:41 PM I am waiting on the Lord. I'm not even looking anymore for a gf or wife. I'm giving it all to God. I know looking and dwelling on it isn't going to make it happen any faster. Besides I feel I'd be better of without a woman in a lot of ways. All I know is whatever God has for me I'm going to be open to it and I'm waiting patiently for his will to be done in my life. Post Reply

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