Back in March/April I met an amazing girl on here. We talked constantly through June, I left for a week on a mission trip and we kind of fell off through June to the middle of July. During that time, she re-met a guy in that she had known in HS or so she said) and they reconnected. (At this point it should be noted she lives in Michigan, and I live in VA). I had no idea, and she didn't tell me, so we reconnected again in July and began our relationship again, when in August up pops a notification on facebook that she's in a relationship with this guy. I confronted her about it and her response was "I didn't want to hurt you." But she maintains that if I had been more vocal about how I felt about her she would be with me and not him, but she just missed the feeling of being held, etc.
Well this goes on for a few weeks, I'm still crazy about her, yet she's with him, telling me how much she likes me, but is with him. Well I do my research (some would call is stalking lol) and of course she's "in love" with him, etc. Anyway so I've been having this sinking feeling, and I confront her about it, she's been sleeping with him (and feels guilty about) but again won't break up with him (it's "not easy" she says). Well we continue to talk on and off (mainly off because she doesn't make me a priority in her life as I did about her), but eventually I grow sick of it and flat out tell her I'm done with it. I can't sit back and take this. I'm done making someone a priority in my life, when they won't make me the same in theirs. So last night I walked away from her.
Was I in the wrong here?? Did I do something wrong?? This kind of hurts because I trusted her so much and she lied to me, she was a priority in my life and took it for granted, she didn't care about me.
Well if this is as bad as your love life gets I'd swap ya. In the past I've been led by women to some dark places and had things happen that will haunt me for the rest of my life by people that I was actually in a proper relationship with!!
And some were Christian as well, just thank God that you havn't experienced the dark side of the force for real!!
