Author	Thread: Why in a relationship you give your all and the other cheats?
Admin	Why in a relationship you give your all and the other cheats? Posted : 4 Aug, 2010 01:17 PM :angel: Hi Everyone :angel: Today I am reflecting on my life. Why? Why me is the thought that crosses my mind. I am faithful I am loyal and I gave all in a relationship that I thought had meaning and love. Why does one go and be unfaithful to the woman he says he loves? i had this happen to me once before in my first marriage and now agian in my second. The second is quite hard because I have children and I deeply loved him with all my heart. Why why is God allowing this pain to happen to me to anyone. I had a thought today. I just thought of packing up me and the kids and drive drive far far away and just go explore what life has to offer and don't look back just drive.... Any thoughts from anyone would be helpful in this time....:angel: Post Reply
CountryGirl48 View Profile History	Why in a relationship you give your all and the other cheats? Posted : 19 Aug, 2010 06:41 PM I also was hurt from a lying man. I gave up all my house hold things and moved in with him. For three years I gave him my best. I guess my best wasn't good enough. I found out he had been e-mailing women on the porn site. It was like I told him. He stuck a knife in my heart, twisted it and it broke into a trillion pieces then he stomped on it until it was powder. So the week-end of the 4th I moved back to South Georgai. He still hasn't said, he was sorry. I asked him and he said, no. I said, are you going to keep doing this and he said, yes. He has been e-mailing one woman ever since I've been there. I would ask if he was still e-mailing and and he lied. I sent her an e-mail and told her that I had a feeling that so and so had not told her that I was living with him for the past three years. He had blocked me out of his e-mail but I found a way in and printed out an e-mail that they had sent each other that week. I told him on Friday before I left on Sat. that he had sent her flowers. Of course he denied it. I had e-mailed her that Friday night and asked her. Yes he sent her a flower this past Christmas and orchids two other times. So I left him. He didn't care if he had he wouldn't have done what he did. It made him mad because I caught him in lie, after lie after lie. It is going to take some doing for me to trust another man Post Reply
happyjer2911 View Profile History	Why in a relationship you give your all and the other cheats? Posted : 22 Aug, 2010 04:31 AM As a women that has been cheated on, lied to, beat, and everything you can think of ... I want to say that God puts us thru things to make us stronger. For the longest time, I thought it was my fault that my ex was doing all these things outside of the relationship, then I found out that it was not all my fault. God asks us to be peace maker. My mother went thru all of these things with my father. I love my dad but he was not acting like the good strong christian man that we all wanted him to do. She was forced out of our home 12 years ago, with five kids. Aged 8 to 17. I feel that my mom is at a point in her life right now that she is the Bride of Jesus. I pray very hard to be a good role model to other christian women. As I was reading some of the posts, I want to give my 23 year old thoughts about some of them... Some cheaters were with husbands and some were with lovers and boyfriends. I think what I saying is that if we as christian women if we do not put the Lord first, He will make us listen in one way or the other. Pixy made a great post in ask guys about questions that should be answered before getting married. Go and check it out. Thanks and God Bless. :purpleangel: Post Reply
purpleflower1 View Profile History	Why in a relationship you give your all and the other cheats? Posted : 12 Sep, 2010 09:42 AM I have been with a wonderful christian man for the past several months. He works in a church ALL day on Sunday not getting off until 9pm. He made me his GIRLFRIEND he still tucks me in bed every night over the phone, texts me good morning every morning, texts me through the day or calls me. For the last few weeks he has become UNAVAILABLE on the weekends. Each Friday and Saturday comes with a new excuse. My conclusion is this, "ALL MEN EVEN CHRISTIAN MEN MOVE ON WHEN THEY FIND SOMETHING BETTER." PERIOD. No ands if's or but's. I have lost two men to blondes that come from loving wonderful supporting families. Why not go where the grass is greener? It sure hurts like frieken you know what. I even have a gorgeous blonde as a friend and her husband did the same exact thing to her so I think it is just a move on to the next BIG thing with men. I didn't go to church today because I am so bummed out and he in the Lords house getting the glory. Post Reply
ben315 View Profile History	Why in a relationship you give your all and the other cheats? Posted : 21 Sep, 2010 09:29 AM To purpleflower.... I know how you feel and its just not guys that do it, woman do it too including ones that claim to be christians. I had text some woman every day month after month and kept getting excuses from her of not being able to date. Finally I found out that she was seeing someguy, and sleeping with him. I know I am better off and you will be too. Good luck things will get better Post Reply
PHILIPPINE_PRIDE View Profile History	Why in a relationship you give your all and the other cheats? Posted : 25 Sep, 2010 11:53 AM HI MORNINGSTAR..IM A MOM OF 9Y/O GIRL AND SEPARATED WITH MY HUBBY...IT'S ALMOST 7 YEARS ,I DNT GET ANY SUPPORTS FROM HIM..HE HAS OTHER WOMAN AND NOW THEYVE OT THEIR OWN SON...AT TIMES I ASK MYSELF,WHATS WRONG TO ME..I DIDNT SHEAT BUT HIS FAMILY KEEPS ACCUSING THAT I DID... I KNOW HOW IT FEELS,I HAVNT SEEN HIM FOR A LONG TIME AND NOW I DNT HAVE LOVE FOR HIM ANYMORE.... IT'S HARD TO ACCEPT IT BUT I PRAYED TO GOD.HOUGH HE DID HURT ME PHYSICALLY, MENTALLLY AND EMOTIONALLY...I TOLD MYSELF THAT GOD HAS NICER PLANS FOR ME...EVERYTHINGS MEANT TO HAPPEN...I KNOW IT'S BAD EXPERIENCE BUT I MADE THESE THINGS AS INSPIRATION...SO NOW I CAN SAY IM STRONGER THAN B4... IF I COULD TURN BACK TIME, I WOULD STILL DO THE MISTAKES I MADE:glow: COS IF I DONT, I WOULDNT HAVE MY DAUGHTER ..SHE'S A REAL SWEETHEART.I THANK GOD FOR THE BLESSING HE HAD GIVEN ME....JUST SMILE OUT THERE,SIS.. I KNOW WE WILL FIND THE RIGHT GUY FOR US. GOD BLESSES US !! CHEERS!:yay: Post Reply
View Profile History	Why in a relationship you give your all and the other cheats? Posted : 29 Sep, 2010 11:41 AM It also happened to me.. it made me cry for more than one month and untill now the pain is still here in my heart. i find it very unfair for me coz i gave my all. my best for him but he didnt just taken mefor granted, he abused my kindness to him. but i still believe that everything happened for a reason. im still asking for God to continously help me recover.. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why in a relationship you give your all and the other cheats? Posted : 29 Sep, 2010 11:41 AM It also happened to me.. it made me cry for more than one month and untill now the pain is still here in my heart. i find it very unfair for me coz i gave my all. my best for him but he didnt just taken mefor granted, he abused my kindness to him. but i still believe that everything happened for a reason. im still asking for God to continously help me recover.. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why in a relationship you give your all and the other cheats? Posted : 6 Oct, 2010 05:48 PM Wow I couldn't imagine this happening in a marriage. I was ingaged and with the guy for three and a half yrs he was my best friend and my other half........we were 9 months away from getting married he told me to pay off my wedding dress and 5 hours later he left me.....????? WHY???? the question still haunts me and sometimes I only blame myself! i'll pray for you my sister in christ...God has a plan for us we just have to let go and let god! Post Reply
View Profile History	Why in a relationship you give your all and the other cheats? Posted : 16 Nov, 2010 12:46 PM i feel like the one cheating is not strong enough in there faith (if they believe that is) to resist satins traps & i am sorry to hear that happen to you GOD bless you Post Reply

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