Author	Thread: loving someone Ive never met in person,am I a fool
steveofgod View Profile History	loving someone Ive never met in person,am I a fool Posted : 26 Sep, 2011 08:41 PM I really liked a girl I knew from facebook,we always posted similar posts ,about hope ,Gods love ectand after talking to her a while and seeing her pictures I started feeling feelings for her,I had never heard her voice or seen her smile but the way she held her daughter in her pictures and loved people just touched me and I loved her,I know it sounds stupid,but how much do you have to have to love someone ,well I stupidly wrote her a sappy love poen and she deleted me,I guess she didnt like me or perhaps feel safe with being liked by someone in another state and online,I thought we knew eack other enough that It would be ok and that she wouldnt feel threatened,she knows Im not a nutcase or stalker but I feel ashamed ,dissapointed and rejected,and now I feel less than,what an ego breaker,.now Im sitting here wishing God would send me someone I will love and who will love me back,so now my upbeat happy grin is andiscouraged frown,perhaps Im not ready for love yet,only God knows! Post Reply
Mercymay View Profile History	loving someone Ive never met in person,am I a fool Posted : 4 Oct, 2011 04:04 AM If you feel you are falling for this girl, don't give up as easily. Be persistent, drop her lines now and then, let her feel you care, and prove love is indeed patient. Her actions towards you might be because of reasons we know or we don't know. She might be on the process of knowing someone right now and doesn't want to connect to a lot at the same time. What if it doesn't develop into something more, then you are there all along if you don't mind being second choice, lol! Life is comedy or misery depending on how you see it. You never know also if she did deleted your friendship at facebook, someone else might have done it without her knowledge. A lot of things we don't know and guesses might be wrong. Don't be ashamed, it is not shameful to fall for someone, disappointed is natural reaction, your are sane and healthy. I believe love may come in mysterious ways and you are not a fool if you fall for someone you have not seen or heard in person. Well, I am not a psychiatrist but that is how I see it. @ Statie I strongly agree that " if a relationship is meant to be -- it will find a way to BE. Regardless of the venue..." Post Reply
Bridgit View Profile History	loving someone Ive never met in person,am I a fool Posted : 10 Oct, 2011 09:15 AM Don't feel ashamed, dissapointed and rejected. You were sincere and that's what counts. So many people turn around the bush instead of saying it as it is. If she had felt the same for you, she would have responded. You should feel at peace, knowing that her feelings for you were not the same as yours. You do not want to push a relationship. I believe in honest, open communication. Say it as it is, otherwise, the relationship will never work. You are searching for love and thought you found it but it didn't work. Now you can move on to find the person who will love receiving your poems and love you as you are. Imo, you saved yourself from a deeper hurt. If you have to hide your true feelings/passion to be loved, there can be no relation. There's got to be a strong connection, a deep acceptance of each other, a complete trust in each other. I pray you will find the women who will love you as you love her. Best wishes to you! Post Reply
View Profile History	loving someone Ive never met in person,am I a fool Posted : 16 Oct, 2011 02:27 AM cowgirl1984, I'm really not in the mood to debate. That's not what I'm here for. What you have said is partial truth about me. I may have bitterness and anger but it's impossible for you to understand me. I have SEEN the darkness of this world. I have experienced the evil in the hearts of men. I have evil in my own heart and I know the depths of man's wickedness. I am so sick and tired of this world now, from all the superficiality to everyone's hidden motives, selfishness, etc. I'm done. DONE. I wish I was a child again, when I thought everyone had good intentions. I have read the Old Testament. I know there are a myriad of places where God's children have messed up, but society has NOT improved in general since then. I'm not saying it was perfect, but at least it was not NEARLY as defiled and corrupt as it is today! I'm speaking in cultural terms. The days are DARKER. Can you not see that? Jesus is coming soon. Post Reply
View Profile History	loving someone Ive never met in person,am I a fool Posted : 16 Oct, 2011 02:36 AM Yeah I don't KNOW if she was a Christian or not but that is CERTAINLY NOT GODLY BEHAVIOR. And don't give me the excuse that we're all imperfect because good manners is an inherent Christian trait. The Bible says to examine yourself to see if you're in the faith, and clearly if someone acts like that I would ask them to examine themselves!!! When you love being vain more than God then something is wrong. Post Reply
View Profile History	loving someone Ive never met in person,am I a fool Posted : 17 Oct, 2011 07:51 PM It goes BOTH ways!!!! Men can hurt you just as much as a women. That is why I keep telling people to really get to know a person before they can be considered being called "a friend." There are alot of heartless people out there looking to "use" anyone out there. It happen to me, but I found out this person's "true identity" before he could do any harm. He in reality was a scammer; though he kept denying it. It pays to do background checks on people. This guy was saying all the right things; even sent flowers. Then came the mistake... he asked for money. Then there is fear. People are afraid to get close for fear of being rejected. Especially after sharing lots of corres- pondence and talking on the phone. Everybody wants to meet that special someone, but it is not gonna be an easy task if you don't REALLY get to know the person. I pray that you all find what you are looking for. Forgive those who hurt you in the past. Go forward, not backwards. God bless you!!!!! Post Reply
aireenraya View Profile History	loving someone Ive never met in person,am I a fool Posted : 19 Oct, 2011 12:25 AM do not worry..someone is intended for you... later may it seems. but she will come in the right time. good luck! Post Reply
righteousfire View Profile History	loving someone Ive never met in person,am I a fool Posted : 19 Oct, 2011 12:34 PM Even blind people love....so, no, it's not crazy to love someone we haven't met. If we spend a lot of time with them on the phone, talking for hours on end, you are bound to either 1) fall in love or 2) not fall in love. The question is this I think; if we fall in love with someone and they fall in love with us, are we quick to forgive if in our walk we stumble. I'm not talking about cheating or extremely serious stuff, but day to day walking it out in the Lord. None of us are perfect, no, not one. We must seek Him every day. I have found that so many seek forgiveness but don't give it. Forgiveness is for us, so that we can grow, so that we become Christ like. I feel sorry for those that hold grudges and bitterness; I wonder how their heart must feel every day. I pray for them. Post Reply
righteousfire View Profile History	loving someone Ive never met in person,am I a fool Posted : 14 Nov, 2011 09:22 AM REJECTION: A serious sstronghold used by the evil one to make us "feel" less than what we are. That's why we must ALWAYS turn to the Word, Jesus for our self worth. 1 John 4:16 And we have known and believed the love that God hath to us. God is love; and he that dwelleth in love dwelleth in God, and God in him. 1 7Herein is our love made perfect, that we may have boldness in the day of judgment: because as he is, so are we in this world. 18 There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear: because fear hath torment. He that feareth is not made perfect in love Don't give up!! I too fell deeply in love with a man in this site, and he said he loved me. When we met there was a great deal of passion and love; but I had made myself clear about sex outside of marriage. Well, he left and went home. The intensity of this situation got out of hand and things were said and the relationship ended; I take full blame and credit for that. But, if he truly had loved me he would have known my heart and forgiven me. I forgave him for his part in it's end, but he never even talked to me much less forgive me. Everyone on here should realize that a love relationship is difficult at best and Jesus Christ must be at the center for believers; and a long distance internet relationship is even MORE difficult. We must understnad that and seek and give forgiveness for our weakness; but GLORY TO GOD, OUR WEAKNESSES ARE MADE INTO STRENGTH IN JESUS! God bless you all in your search! Post Reply
Marie4526 View Profile History	loving someone Ive never met in person,am I a fool Posted : 28 Nov, 2011 06:49 PM Hi ,i want to encourage you.Dont feel ashamed.God doesnt want us to feel bad.Ive had a couple of broken hearts.But theres someone out there for u.Sometimes God will block a thing to protect us.It may have not been what it apeared.Be encourage youll find the love of your life. Post Reply
righteousfire View Profile History	loving someone Ive never met in person,am I a fool Posted : 11 Feb, 2012 12:48 AM Well said Bridgit!:applause: It amazes me how much self denial, fear and downright arrogance is on this so-called Christian dating site. The Word tells us that God is capable of doing exceedingly more than we can ever ask for and His time is not our time. We read it and say we believe it; then we hurt someone deeply for stepping out in faith on that promise. Why would someone loving you be so "freaky"? Doesn't the bible tell us to love one another; just because you may not have the same feelings; by turning and running and blocking someone that sees something lovable in you could make you miss out on something awesome had you just respected that person and allowed them to feel how they feel; it's a blessing to be loved like that.....who knows, you may just catch up. Very seldom do both feel the same level of committment of love at the same exact time. Post Reply

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