Author	Thread: Worthless?
Tenshii View Profile History	Worthless? Posted : 18 Dec, 2010 08:50 PM So...have you ever got that feeling? The one where you think youre worth nothing because someone threw you away like trash? I'm going through that right now...i pretty much want to die...its not a feeling i enjoy.. Post Reply
shepherdess View Profile History	Worthless? Posted : 18 Dec, 2010 09:04 PM Ah, but GOD wants you to LIVE. sounds like a good time to search the scriptures and see just how much the Saviour loves you. He has a plan for you too. If you were the only one on earth, he would have sent His Son....just for you. And the Bible reminds us single women that Jesus is the "husband to the husbandless"....somthing I too, have to keep reminding myself. I want to give myself to Him (and he doesn't need me to cook, clean, pick up...oopps, am ranting) But seriouly: He is my Lord, my husband. I need to spend my time trying to please Him, commune with Him. If we are a good wife to Him, when he sends us a mortal man, we will be in good practice to care for him. Does it help to think of it that way? I hope so. it helps me Post Reply
Tenshii View Profile History	Worthless? Posted : 18 Dec, 2010 09:09 PM thank you that does help i just feel... betrayed but i guess thats what happens when dealing with people of this world... Post Reply
View Profile History	Worthless? Posted : 18 Dec, 2010 09:42 PM Check out what I responded to your other post. If you cling to Jesus during times like this, he'll remind you what you're worth. But you need to put the pain to the side to let him in. Post Reply
Tenshii View Profile History	Worthless? Posted : 18 Dec, 2010 09:44 PM yes. Thank you for that. I know its what i need to do...i just want to find worldly love so badly.....i have to reign in that desire Post Reply
View Profile History	Worthless? Posted : 19 Dec, 2010 04:20 PM Yes, I have felt worthless before. As I have grown in may ways, I realize I'm not and, if that person made me feel worthless, then that is that person's problem. I am a person of worth because my Father in Heaven created me to be the woman I am!!! Don't let anyone make you feel that way. Look in the mirror, search your heart and realize you are a person of worth!! God made you special and no one can take that away from you! You are a unique woman because He made you that way!! Post Reply
View Profile History	Worthless? Posted : 19 Dec, 2010 05:36 PM Journal. I really wish I started doing it a long time ago. Rant to yourself. See what you really think. Be honest with yourself. Don't inhibit or censor yourself. Feel and express everything fully and don't try to rationalize. Just get it out of your system and let it die. It's the best thing I've ever done to get over the heartbreaks confusion, uncertainty, paranoia and everything else I feel inside from all the heartbreaks and let downs I've had and has brought a lot of strength and healing from those times. Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	Worthless? Posted : 19 Dec, 2010 09:36 PM Brandon is right...journal. I do that frequently, and it is very healing. Sometimes I don't want to write down my thoughts where someone might find them, so I'll type several pages on my computer, read them, and hit delete. (And make sure it really is deleted completely from the recycle bin too!) In fact, hitting delete is a good way for me to be honest with myself and God about my feelings, because deleting the document is my way of turning them over to God and not dwelling on them anymore. Sounds crazy, I know, but it works for me. Post Reply
View Profile History	Worthless? Posted : 20 Dec, 2010 12:08 AM I felt worthless all through high school and it wasn't enough for my closest friends and the older women in my life at the time to tell me that it just simply is not true. Writing your thoughts and feelings down in a journal is an awesome idea! In college someone showed me Psalm 139, where it says that "His thoughts about you outnumber the grains of sand." So, think about all the teeny tiny little grains of sand all over the world... they can't even counted! And God's thoughts (good thoughts) about YOU are so much more than that. That shows how much worth you have to God! You are valuable... not worthless! Post Reply
lostbutfound View Profile History	Worthless? Posted : 20 Dec, 2010 03:39 AM I understand how you felt but don't be. I mean, everybody feels it at some point in his life. I myself felt that way just a few months ago, and although I still feel a little devastated, it is not as intense as it was before. Honestly , I am never this close to God. It is just amazing how something so bad can make me closer to Him After a few days, or weeks or months, you would be able to see a new light to whatever happened to you. God will never forsake nor leave us. Post Reply
Elisa View Profile History	Worthless? Posted : 20 Dec, 2010 02:51 PM A while back, a situation occurred that left me begging the Lord to take me home to live with Him. As you put it, some folks threw me away like so much worthless garbage. The fact that it was my church family made it even worse. However, God did not throw me away. When everything was in crumbles, my health, my profession, my friends...I was reduced to lots of little pieces. Through that, God helped me rebuild myself into who I am today. Thinking back, without that experience, I could not handle the challenges that occur regularly in my life now. Only because I survived that horrendous experience am I able to serve in my current capacity. Just as iron needs to be forged in the fire to go from a brittle substance to steel, maybe so do we. The experience may be painful, but we survive and become the stronger for it. While I cannot take your pain away, God can. He can also bear that burden when it is too heavy for you if you will let him. No hurt or problem is too large or too small to lay before our Lord. Praying you find the strength and love you need to feel whole again. Blessings. Post Reply

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