Author	Thread: I will never understand
Admin	I will never understand Posted : 15 Nov, 2010 08:36 AM I will never understand what it takes to find a wife. I don�t know what I am doing, and that turns women off. I have tried to learn and to understand, but this is the only thing that I have learned: 1. Don�t bother telling the truth, everyone will just try to make you feel better by denying the truth. 2. Don�t ask for help, everyone will just start accusing you of every sin under the sun. 3. As a guy, you have to know what you are doing when dating, women have no patience for guys who don�t know. You either just know, or you are left alone. No one wants to have to deal with a guy who doesn�t know what he is doing, no matter how sweet and kind and caring he is. 4. No matter how many different ways you try to explain that you are having a difficulty understanding what to do, people will not take the time to try and understand. They will simply say the same thing over and over again, just go out there and pound your head against the wall and hope something sticks. 5. No one cares if you are alone or not. As long as they have theirs, that is all that matters. Post Reply
View Profile History	I will never understand Posted : 15 Nov, 2010 10:04 AM *hugs* I know how you feel, hang on =( One thing, Cobbler, you are one of the qualified men on this site! :applause: So if those women don't appreciate someone like u, dun be discouraged! Maybe this sounds clich� but we have Jesus! Don't give up, brother :) Post Reply
View Profile History	I will never understand Posted : 15 Nov, 2010 01:54 PM Tell me about it. Girl I'm talking to tells me she loves me but turns around and says she's not ready for a relationship that she only wants to be friends. It just kills me because I've poured my heart out to her but it's like it doesn't even matter or mean anything to her. Then she tells me I've never been in a relationship before so I don't know how they work and keeps telling me how hard it is for her and that I'm not trying to understand where she's coming from. I think I understand enough that she's either afriad to get involved with me or that she for some reason just doesn't want to admit that she's not interested. Either way I'm always left confused and second guessing. Sad part is it's this way with every girl I talk to. I'm not even fully sure why this girl in particular makes me crazy but in a weird way I am drawn to her. Post Reply
anyann View Profile History	I will never understand Posted : 15 Nov, 2010 02:03 PM Cobbler has deleted his profile from CDFF. Another person we didn't know how to help :( hearts are so fragile !!! Post Reply
View Profile History	I will never understand Posted : 15 Nov, 2010 02:07 PM Dang. I'll miss you Cobbler. Not that I know you personally but you seem like a good guy. Post Reply
ninaray View Profile History	I will never understand Posted : 15 Nov, 2010 07:15 PM sometimes in life we are dealing with people who are not secure in their walk with Jesus, sometimes, we deal with our own demons. Most men look at the woman for the outside and not what is in the inside of them. I on the other hand deal with both. I am a good looking woman that I just want men to see me for what I am in the inside and not the outside. I feel that Love is a strong word and Love can be taken out of content in so many levels. When we learn to love our self and make sure we put Jesus first in all things, that is when relationships work...When you set your eyes on man or Woman, we will always let you down, but threw Jesus Christ we make it threw all things. Sorry if my words are not what you wanted to hear, but I find that a Man of God is more appealing then a man that is in the world. I want the man of God that is there for me to keep his eyes set of Jesus and not always on me. I want a pray partner and a man that doesnt need me to give him a breath of fresh air. I want someone that is so close with Jesus that we can share our love for one together. Make sense? Hugs.xx Post Reply
ninaray View Profile History	I will never understand Posted : 15 Nov, 2010 08:02 PM I hope I had not offended you, I tried to send you a message, but you have that dang age restrictions on your page...lol...anyways, God bless you brother.xx Post Reply
SilverFire View Profile History	I will never understand Posted : 18 Nov, 2010 04:08 AM This is a tragedy. I wish that I had been here, so that I could have said something to help; I resonate with a lot of the things that he is saying. I may not have ready-made Fix-a-flat type answers, but I could have at least been encouraging. Post Reply
View Profile History	I will never understand Posted : 27 Nov, 2010 09:30 AM welcome back to the site, hopefully things go smoothly for you. Post Reply
View Profile History	I will never understand Posted : 27 Nov, 2010 05:32 PM I know how you fell brother. I had a woman that I considered my "soul mate," and she just left me one day after 6 years together. No explainations or reasons at all, and she will hardly speak to me to this day. She was my everlasting love, and I adored her. We were so happy together - or so I thought. The thing is I still love and adore her, and always will. But why all of a sudden she just left me stunned and angry I will never know. She ripped my hear out and destroyed me in the process! God Bless You, Beatnik BLC Post Reply
View Profile History	I will never understand Posted : 28 Nov, 2010 01:29 PM So sorry for everyone's pain and sorrow. :( The only real thing I can say from my own "dark night of my soul" experiences is the fact that we cannot put our expectations in ANYONE except Jesus. This has been my lifelong experience as a Christian for 38 years and still learning it. Phil. 3:10 That I might know him in the power of His resurrection and the fellowship of His suffering. This is the internet and it's very difficult to have a real, eye contact, life experience here. And yes, real life is a spiral upward of joy, sorrow and repentance. To every thing there is a season, on one person can avoid the heartaches. It's just that Jesus makes it all worthwhile as in the end, we go to live with Him and He will wipe away ALL tears. :purpleangel: Post Reply

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