Author	Thread: Very confused
Lbrun7288 View Profile History	Very confused Posted : 16 May, 2010 08:49 PM Seven months ago I met this woman whom I thought was perfect, she was smart, beautiful, funny, caring, etc... Everything was going fine when we met we talked a lot got to know each other then we decided to date. Everything was fine then two days before Christmas she brakes up with me, leaving me heart broken. I'm very close with my friends and I love my friends and they didn't like that i was heart broken so they said something to Melissa(my ex) And she send me a message on facebook saying she's hurt becuase people are attacking her and of course I told my friends to say sorry and to leave her alone, she tells me why she brakes up with and the reason was becuase she had a child who she lied to me about(Please note I never went to this girls house, I would call her and take her out to dinner, movies etc..) even thou I asked her before who the child is becuase she has a picture of them on her phone and she told me it was her nephew, even tho she lied to me I told her I still wanted to be with her and learn about her son and she gave out relationship a 2nd chance, but after a month I really didn't believe a word she said. One day i decided to break up with her, not becuase I stopped caring about her, but becuase of her actions. She would give guys her number when she's drunk, she let her friend harass me and when i asked her to tell him to stopped she said "No now you know how it feels" even tho I told my friends to stop and did, she refused to do so. A few days later she decides to go out with my friend just to hurt me (and it did) , she kept saying he was better then me, but never really said how. I really don't care about it now becuase that dude was a creep by send her nude pic of himself to her and they never met in person which make him desperate, and I told her I don't want to talk to her anymore she called me the next day crying saying she loves me and she only did it to hurt me, then she says she was drunk and didn't mean a word she she said, and I told her "a drunken mind speaks a sober heart". Then she told me about how her ex was in town and blah blah blah(Trying to make me jealous) She kept telling me how they hung out and kissed and I person don't think a girl should kiss a guy who's not their bf I find that gross and it also shows the guy you don't respect yourself. She also told me that he's into drugs and I really didn't think that was a good idea since she has a child. Then she kept telling that she doesn't want to be with, but yet she sent my friend 2 text messages right infront of me that said she wants to be with me. so for the last time I told her I don't want to talk to her anymore and she got mad and told people I was gay which isn't true. NOW she has a new BF, but she calls my friend every night asking if i'm seeing anyone, and how I'm doing. Her best friend told me she talks about me all the time. IS this girl a nut case or what? Post Reply
View Profile History	Very confused Posted : 16 May, 2010 10:16 PM I'm really sorry that you've experienced this. It sounds to me like SHE is very confused. She needs to figure out who she is, what she wants, and what a Christ-centered relationship look like before she dates/courts anyone. Deciding who you're going to marry (and then taking on the responsibilities of a wife) is a very serious thing... and something that she is clearly not mature enough for. And the kind of drama that she creates is a HUGE red flag. Post Reply
View Profile History	Very confused Posted : 16 May, 2010 10:23 PM I don't think she's a nut case but she's definitely into mind games. She seems like the kind of girl who likes to do things just to get some sort of attention. By the sounds of it, she likes have be with any guy. She feels better when she thinks that multiple guys have her on their minds, even if that means hurting them. Post Reply
Lbrun7288 View Profile History	Very confused Posted : 16 May, 2010 10:36 PM Well I really don't want to be with her at all for what she has done. 1st of she lied to be about her own child and I think thats very low and I still stood with her and loved her and her son I never yelled at them and i never did anything wrong. And yes she does love to play mind games, I caught her in so many lies that is not even funny, and she has a habit of turning people against each other, God knows what lies she telling guys about me. She calls my friend every night asking how I am doing and it's starting to get annoying. This girl lets bad people into her life and her sons life, before me and her dated she went out with a married man and still was friends with him when she found out he was married. I really don't want to be with her, I personally just want her out of my life and to forget about me. She lies so much that she even lies to herself she promised herself she'll never date a cop again and look what her new bf is a cop, plus she dates strangers(meaning she'll talk to a guy and date him the next day and I know for a fact she didn't know this guy well enough to date him and that relationship is going down hill) I know you may think I care, but I don't all I care about is her son and thats about is and for her to leave me alone. Post Reply
Lbrun7288 View Profile History	Very confused Posted : 16 May, 2010 10:39 PM She used to tell me that she was confused, which made me confused becuase she told me numerous times that she didn't want to be with me and yet she text my friend saying she wants to be with me but whats to take a brake...serious does she think I'm stupid? I've dated a lot of girls and when those words come out I know for a fact that there was another guy and that guy was her exbf who's a pot head who hurt her very badly in the past. IDK whats wrong with her, but I wish she would stop Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	Very confused Posted : 16 May, 2010 11:33 PM The best thing you can do is reject her phone calls, ignore her texts, tell your friends to do the same, and move on. She does what she does because she feeds off the attention she gets. Post Reply
Lbrun7288 View Profile History	Very confused Posted : 17 May, 2010 12:35 AM I do reject her calls all the time. I even have my voice mail set to the "the number you have diled is no longer in survice", but she's very smart and knows its fake. She left me one voicemail while she's talking to her friend n she's telling him how she misses me n how she made a mistake. Another night she left me a voice mail saying she's sorry and that she loves me...lets keep in mind that she has a bf -_- n personally don't want to tell him cuz he's a cop n I don't want drama Post Reply
View Profile History	Very confused Posted : 17 May, 2010 05:05 AM she's a nutty as they come.. she's doing you a favor by rejecting you, thank the good Lord for small mercies :laugh: on Christ can help her:prayingf: Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	Very confused Posted : 17 May, 2010 10:29 AM Is she a nut case? Possibly. Is SHE confused? Probably. Should you keep dwelling on her? NO. Move on. Learn from this experience. She has some serious problems, and needs help, but I don't think you are the one to help her. Just pray for her. I think that's all you can do at this point. Post Reply
SOS4EMAILFRIEND View Profile History	Very confused Posted : 18 May, 2010 03:13 AM Caring guys, like yourself, have the problem of attracting women who need care and attention. You are a cop. You help people out. But as a man in a relationship your job is not to help out. By keeping these 2 things separated, you will not attract (or be attracted to) women who need help. Post Reply
Lbrun7288 View Profile History	Very confused Posted : 18 May, 2010 09:03 AM I never said I was a cop lol she's dating a cop whom she said "I will never date a cop ever again" becuase the guy before me was a married cop and she went out with him. She still was friends with him when she found out he was married until she met me and that changed everything. But long story short I changed my number, blocked her on facebook and aim she has no way of talking to me, I told my friend not to talk to her and he agreed Post Reply

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