Author	Thread: Any older virgins here?
Admin	Any older virgins here? Posted : 26 Mar, 2011 10:12 PM DISCLAIMER: This thread is NOT an attack towards those who have committed fornication in the past. If you have had premarital sex in the past but you've since repented from that and are now committing your life to sexual purity, then praise be to God and I tip my hat off to you for turning your life and morals around. With that being said....... Most of the time I feel like I am alone in this world when it comes to this subject matter, but maybe I am wrong. I am 30 years old and never married and I'm still a virgin. I intend to stay that way until my wedding night (if God ever brings me a wife). I know I am doing the right thing, but it is extremely difficult and frustrating to say the least when you're my age and have yet to have sex in a world where the average human being loses their virginity at age 12 and people like me are considered to be "strange". The older I get, the more I find it hard to deal with all the garbage the world throws at me when it comes to sexual immorality, especially since I'm a technician at a local car dealer (a career field that has a high tendency to attract men who are among the biggest perverts in the world and love to fill their toolbox drawers with porn and talk about stuff like how they want to "bang" that hot customer with the nice body or go hang out at strip clubs, etc.). I have heard people say that "The 40 Year Old Virgin" is a funny movie, but to be honest, I don't think I will ever want to put any effort into watching that movie because I have a feeling that it's a slam against people like me. Are there any older virgins like myself that share my frustration or am I alone in this catagory? Post Reply
View Profile History	Any older virgins here? Posted : 26 Mar, 2011 10:44 PM Jahjah, I hope you find some, I happen to know a couple older people who frequent this site and are still virgins. (Not that I had asked, but rather I've heard them say.) I hope the Lord blesses you for your patience. You're one in a million! Post Reply
Tulip89 View Profile History	Any older virgins here? Posted : 27 Mar, 2011 07:48 AM Slightly off topic, and I guess there's a chance that the non-TV version is different, but I seem to remember them deciding to wait til they're married in the 40 Year Old Virgin. Post Reply
View Profile History	Any older virgins here? Posted : 27 Mar, 2011 08:37 AM There are a few of us older virgins out here. I also find it difficult to deal with the church. Everyone tells you that it is wonderful that I have saved myself for so long, but then they treat you like a little kid, as if you are not willing to be responsible because you don�t have a wife. Remaining a virgin until you are married is acceptable when you are young. But, holding out until you are in your 30s and 40s, even many conservative Christians will start to look at you as if there is something wrong with you. All that being said, God commands us as Christians to stay virgins until we are married. It doesn�t matter what anyone else says. Post Reply
shepherdess View Profile History	Any older virgins here? Posted : 27 Mar, 2011 02:12 PM "All that being said, God commands us as Christians to stay virgins until we are married. It doesn�t matter what anyone else says. " AMEN NoMrC. We need to remember that the right was is the Narrow one! If the majority is going one way, you can be sure it is the Wrong way! I would also say that sin, like misery, loves company. People who are truely born again Christians of maturity could be nothing less than extremely proud of your Strength and Obedience to Christ. The 'world' is only comfortable when you are sharing in their sins. Post Reply
bcpianogal View Profile History	Any older virgins here? Posted : 27 Mar, 2011 02:20 PM I'll be 28 in two months, and I'm still a virgin...does that count as "older"? I fully intend to remain a virgin until my wedding night. Post Reply
View Profile History	Any older virgins here? Posted : 27 Mar, 2011 02:45 PM Even though you know what is right, it still hurts to be looked down upon, even by those who know it is right. What makes it even harder is when they also refuse to help you find a spouse, claiming that God must be �calling you� to be single. Even though you do the right thing, it still becomes a source of shame. Post Reply
View Profile History	Any older virgins here? Posted : 28 Mar, 2011 02:05 PM I was a virgin until after marriage.My x was the only woman I have every slept with. I believe also not having sex outside of marriage when you are forgiven for your divorace makes me a virgin again.Feeo free to disagree. oh, no one attacks me for feeling this way. Sex is for inside of marriage only mr. Collins. that is the true christian way. Live it breath it. Dennis Post Reply
Elisa View Profile History	Any older virgins here? Posted : 30 Mar, 2011 10:49 PM Smiling and at being treated like a child. I still have to eat at the children's table at some events because I have not chosen to marry or become a parent. Until either a part of a couple or a parent....as mentioned by another, children we remain. This used to really bother me....then I overheard what all they talked about at the "big people's table". We have loads more fun at the kids' table. On the other hand....those of us without exes don't have that pain. I don't regret that in the slightest. Finally, regarding sin.....is it easy to avoid? Nope, of course not. If it were easy.....we would all be saints. Not sure how our world got so topsy turvy to the point where it is now. Folks sleepin around, messin around, livin together, etc......that is the accepted standard. Yet, this goes against the commandments we were given. Those commandments were put in place to protect us though. So, the world on one side, God on the other....not much of a decision to make is it? :) Post Reply
View Profile History	Any older virgins here? Posted : 31 Mar, 2011 02:50 PM To those who have overcome peer pressure, hormones and temptation - I take my hat off to you.:applause: To those that haven't: Jesus thinks no less of you.:yay: Post Reply
Dscott View Profile History	Any older virgins here? Posted : 31 Mar, 2011 07:45 PM I envy you and God will truly give you you're reward. I decided to wait until I remarry. Whether its 6months or 60 years I'm going to wait.....if I'm able to swing my hips the way I want in 60 years then I guess I would be blessed...lol Post Reply

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