Author	Thread: Why can't the young and the old find the right person?
Admin	Why can't the young and the old find the right person? Posted : 11 Mar, 2011 12:14 PM Why can't the young and the old find the right person for Marriage? I am posting this in each section, because of the importance in getting responses. I look back when I met my ex-wife 35 years ago. We bumped into each other in a parking lot. We smiled at each other, and then we talked to each other. Then I called her for a date and we both knew soon after, we were in love. We were not equally yoked, but the pastor from my church didn't put emphasis on the matter, after 27 years of marriage, then came our divorce. Can we really find Love on the Internet? Many say they can. I have a son 30 and a daughter 24 and neither are in a relationship. I see more young people on here than the older ones. I believe people are not the same as they were 40 years ago. People today would rather surf the web for a date than look for a date. People in general don�t smile to strangers, let alone speak to strangers. If they do, they would rather text on the phone or email than call them again. The core to the problem, people are interested in their gadgets and their busy lives more than the fellowship in talking with them in person. We need to get back to the Golden Rule that we have lost over the years. We should be kind and love everyone, that is what the Bible tells us to do! Is it because we are living in the last days? In the Book of Daniel he tells us people will go to and fro and knowledge will increase. We see this today in so many ways. Another word for the Internet is going to and fro, along with how fast we can get anywhere on this earth today. Would love to hear what others think about this issue. :buddies: Post Reply
View Profile History	Why can't the young and the old find the right person? Posted : 16 Mar, 2011 06:24 AM I feel that a person can find true love online, but I don�t feel they should depend entirely on an online dating site to find love. I don't think it is a "fantasy." Not everyone will find his or her soul mate on an internet dating site. Statistically speaking I don't know the odds to finding a soul mate on an online dating site. I feel because the internet for most is a safe haven to express themselves most people tend to be more open online than they would in person. It is a place where some pretend and make believe at other people�s expense. Some are actually married or are in a relationship with someone and choose to spend their time picking up single people online who haven�t a clue about their status. This is the deceptive nature of people online. I for one have met some decent guys online so I know it is a place where you can meet decent people who can become a friend and in some cases, for some, maybe more. Some people also choose to be online to find someone because it is sometimes difficult for some, especially those that work full time and maybe don�t have that many friends close by, to meet a potential date or a friend to go out with. Some people don�t have the time to go looking for a date. Or for some, they just want someone to go out with every once in a while. It doesn�t matter what ago you are everyone at some point in time want to share their time with someone, want to be appreciate by someone, and want to be loved by someone. Moreover, for some, instead of going to a bar to pick up a guy or gal, they can develop a friendship with that person and then decide to meet that person. As for technology, the Americans seem obsessed with it. Most younger people are obsessed with texting, face book, and many other forms of communicating that is somewhat impersonal. Some older adults are obsessed with their blackberry. These forms of technology although good can also be bad. I find it is always better to hear a person�s voice when communicating especially one-on-one if it is over the telephone or better yet, to see their facial expressions and gestures if communicating in person. Post Reply
View Profile History	Why can't the young and the old find the right person? Posted : 23 Mar, 2011 07:05 PM THE PROBLEM IS THIS: Too many people believe the satanic soulmate doctrine that has spread around all over the place, including churches...first of all the soulmate doctrine doesnt line up with this verse...1st Timothy 5:14 where the apostle Paul says that widows under the age of 60 should remarry...THIS VERSE IS PROOF THAT SOULMATES DONT EXIST BECAUSE YOU COULDNT REMARRY AT ALL IF THEY DID...So what is the soulmate doctrine? It is simply another way for satan and his demons to get victory over God's children by making them think they have some special person that God created just for them...WHERE IS THE SCRIPTURE TO BACK UP THAT NONSENSE ABOUT SOULMATES? The soulmate doctrine is nothing short of the work of satan and his demons in camouflage...SATAN IS NOT TOTALLY STUPID...HE USED TO BE IN HEAVEN...FURTHERMORE SATAN KNOWS THE WORD OF GOD BETTER THAN WE DO...THATS WHY HE KNOWS HOW TO TWIST IT SO DECEPTIVELY...EVEN I USED TO THINK THAT I HAD A SOULMATE BUT NOT ANYMORE... PRAISE GOD THAT I FINALLY FOUND OUT THE TRUTH!!! Post Reply