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WomanofFaith123

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Ask me anything you ever wanted to know about dating a Christian woman but are afraid to ask
Posted : 1 Feb, 2011 12:23 PM

Hello everyone:



I am writing a chapter in my book about dating and I have a section where I answer questions regarding dating in the 21 st century please ask me any question concerning dating and I will attempt to give you a Christ centered answer. Thanks so much!

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Posted : 1 Feb, 2011 02:34 PM

Do I have to propose on the first date? :ROFL:





Seriously, why do some Christian women seem to want to head in that direction so fast?

Not sure this is the kind of question you were wanting to be asked but if you can answer it for me, I'd be thankful.





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Posted : 1 Feb, 2011 03:13 PM

Most women want a man to be committed to the relationship not necessary a marriage proposal. Sometime men need a little prodding to decide just what he wants. Another aspect after a certain age our biological clocks are ticking and we want to have children so we may appear to be a bit anxious.



If a woman wants you to propose after a few dates exit stage right.

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Posted : 2 Feb, 2011 08:20 AM

Thanks for the advise, WomanofFaith.

And you can be sure I'll exit immediately!:ROFL:





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Posted : 2 Feb, 2011 11:00 AM

However, if after two years the woman wants you to propose ....

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Posted : 3 Feb, 2011 08:30 AM

is it really cheaper to have a dozen kids?

Should you discuss this with the person you date?

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Posted : 4 Feb, 2011 07:53 AM

I wouldn't wait two years for a man to propose. If he hasn't made up his mind within 6 months of meeting me Iam moving on. He's wasting my time and preventing my husband from finding me. Especially when you are older you don't have time for mind games and broken hearts. Date someone for about 5 times and decide whether you should pursue marriage and if there are lot of issues like mental health, financial (he doesn't work) or any major character and moral deficiences proceed to the next potential mate. Please do not compromise. God wants the best for us! And believe me there is someone on the planet who was especially created just for you.

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Posted : 4 Feb, 2011 08:12 AM

Always discuss how many children you want before marriage especially if she cannot have any children what your alternatives may be. Many divorces occur because one party forgot to mention that they are infertile or that they only wanted 2 children and the other party wanted 7. Communicate openly about life altering decisions such as those. Especially if the woman is considerably older than a man, a 50 year old woman who marries a 40 year old man is probably finished having children. And men please understand that there are women your age or younger who would enjoy raising children. Let's not defraud one another.

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Posted : 6 Feb, 2011 02:17 PM

Why would you not wait 2 years for the guy to propose? 6 months is such a short time. Why rush it. Would you break up with the guy if he did not ask u to marry him in 6 months???

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Posted : 6 Feb, 2011 10:03 PM

I'm with you Britt...



and I think instead of the "I want" / " you want" mentality, Christians should seek God's will~in All aspects of marriage.

I also believe that most divorces (like any sin) is when "we are drawn away by our own lusts"

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Posted : 7 Feb, 2011 03:30 AM

It really shouldn�t take much more than six months to decide if you want to marry someone or not, that is if the two of you have been working towards that end. Brittany, for you it would be different, you are still trying to figure out just exactly who you are. For those of us who are double your age, we already know that we are ready for marriage, its simply a matter of whom to marry. There is no reason to drag a relationship out for two years.



How long you date is not important, it�s how much you get to know each other in the time before marriage that counts.

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