Author	Thread: How long to wait ?
Admin	How long to wait ? Posted : 1 Feb, 2011 09:34 AM I never forget the Oprah show that was called " He is not so much into you " I have got some answer at my ad but men are writing me once and then do I not hear from them for a long time. There is excuses like they have been not home or been working hard so they haven�t could write. But as the days go do I think " He is not so much into you " How long to wait for someone to answer your mail ? Is it a limit when you can be sure that he/she is not into you ? Those that ignore me, they will step by step going down on my list with nice men. Do you have a list you put the men in depended on how much you like him or do you write and don�t care if they drop out ? If I have waited one week to get a answer from a man, should it count as he is not into me ? I have one man here that I have met and I am interested in him but as he take time to answer and write a short letter when answer must don�t care for me ? I have seen that he have 47 women that like him so he must be busy talking to them ? What do you think ? Post Reply
View Profile History	How long to wait ? Posted : 1 Feb, 2011 09:44 AM depends how often they go on site like this to respond to people. If they are going on here often, yet don't reply for long spells, then not really interested, just passing some time. Post Reply
View Profile History	How long to wait ? Posted : 1 Feb, 2011 10:17 AM I would multitask by writing other people while waiting. And then while waiting for them write other people, and so on. Post Reply
View Profile History	How long to wait ? Posted : 1 Feb, 2011 05:06 PM You asked a lot of questions here, but I think what you are asking is in your title --- how long do you wait for a reply before moving on? Me, personally, I wait a week. If I have been talking with him more than a month, I will wait two weeks. On this site, if someone flags another as a "favorite", that does not mean the person flagged wanted it. They actually have no choice in the matter. So in your case it does not mean he actually has 47 ladies he is talking to. Hope that helps. Post Reply
View Profile History	How long to wait ? Posted : 4 Feb, 2011 12:55 PM Thank you for the answer.... For me is it the opposite.....if I have talked to him in one month and we like to talk to each other should he be more faster to talk to me if he start to be interested.... If after a month of talking should I feel me a little offended if he let me wait for two weeks because I know my value and I don�t beg any person to like me because my life is ok also without a man even if it�s not complete without a man/friend in my life. And ofcourse...I am not a woman if I should only have one man to wait for if I had more men to choose from.... I think it is ok to date and be with another man on the friend level but as soon we go serious will I be one-mans-woman Life is to short to sit an wait for one person at time if there is more men that have written to me. I am also on Myspace and Facebook and there do I have many single men too....so I don�t sit and wait on a "friend" level Post Reply
View Profile History	How long to wait ? Posted : 13 Feb, 2011 01:42 PM :glow:On the topic,i just want ot say that you should wait a week or two,just like GL siad above.You never know,as some people sstated in their profile,they have a profession that's time consuming,so they are'nt always on here or even check here evryday,but the most important thing to do is to wait on The Lord,& later on,He'll not only show you the way,but the answer as well.Just pray on it sis! Post Reply
View Profile History	How long to wait ? Posted : 28 Feb, 2011 05:43 PM God promises to give us the desire of our hearts if we delight ourselves in the Lord. It may take days, months or who knows but God knows. and he wants us to be faithful and thankful always. Seek the Lord and he will either tell u or give u signs about the person. From that u should know if he is the right one. God Bless! Post Reply