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Posted : 4 Jan, 2011 03:26 PM

Why has it become the in thing to bash make up and women's clothing in the last 2 months. I am seeing this all over the forums and it is getting to be disgusting. Why do some guys think they have to run the oppisite sex into the ground??????

From the dating experiences to the morals bashing how women do things is getting old.

The Apostle Paul wrote men address men, women are to address women.

I also find it disrurbing that older guys look at young women's pictures and condem them.Why are they looking at young women?

Why would some guy display a woman's email for all to read.

We are to love our brothers and sisters not condem them.

I hope this gets the matter in the open.

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Posted : 4 Jan, 2011 06:29 PM

dgrimater



You seam like a thoughtful and caring man. It is sad that some men feel so much hatred towards women. Unfortunately open forums and sites can attract all types of people. Some people just like to fight and cause pain towards others.



A relationship of any type has to be equal. If one is dominating and controlling the other it will never work well. It is about respect and love. I would not even try to control my children. They have there own minds and are free to make decisions.



The world is always going to have bullies and inconsiderate people. It gives them a false sense of power to invoke fear and pain on others.



I believe in equality and equal opportunity. Sure I could hate all men based on a few bad experiences I have had. What would that accomplish? That's just being presides and close minded.



One good thing though is that at least the smart women will see those hateful over dominating men's true nature from there posts.



I am very surprised there is not much moderation on sites like this. Some of the other sites I have been on (not dating ones) are always giving posters time outs for bad behaviour.

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Posted : 4 Jan, 2011 06:58 PM

I agree with you dgrimater and I live in Canada.



I've been seeing alot of insulting and hurtful words flying in a couple of the forums. I was really shocked to see this happening among the Christians.



I think that loving and kind words, need to be practiced.



Have a Happy, Healthy New Year and God richly bless you all. :angel:

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Posted : 4 Jan, 2011 07:44 PM

Dennis, I'm not sure what make-up bashing question you saw. The only question I've seen was asked by a woman to find out what men prefer. As for the other questions, sometimes people can go a little over board, (such as one you refered to in here), but for the most part, I think the questions were generally some men venting their frustrations in not finding women who were modest or trying to understand why women wear what they do. I personally have not taken these questions as an attempt on bashing women and fashion.

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Posted : 4 Jan, 2011 09:40 PM

I'm not sure I've seen a large amount of posts about it. Yes there was the bikini post and one today about make up. What I would say though, about any topic, is that they will go in cycles. A person brings up a topic. That spurs a related thought from someone else. So I just think it is the nature of conversation. As far as Canadas comment, with the exception of one or two posters who have appeared to disappeared at last, I don't think I've seen any women haters here.

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Posted : 4 Jan, 2011 10:02 PM

Canada,

You gave me so much to work with! But it is the new year so I'll be kind. However there was one sentence that was of the hook! :

"I would not even try to control my children. They have there own minds and are free to make decisions."



Um..read proverbs lately?...raise up a child in the way he should go and when he is old he will not depart from it.

Or...

Rod of correction in parts wisdom, but a child left to himself to disgraces his mother.

Or... what about in Hebrews...

The Lord disciplines those he loves and punishes everyone he accepts as a son.



If you are looking for a Godly Bible believing man on this site, you might want to discuss your plans on child rearing. After all they will be his children also and he should have a say....and after discussion the final say....( you might want to discuss that also )





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Posted : 4 Jan, 2011 10:10 PM

twosparrows. her profiles says she isn't single. she is just on this site to do research for the dating website she is programming/building.

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Posted : 4 Jan, 2011 11:07 PM

Thanks Shawn,

guess I'll have to check out her profile!...sounds interesting.

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Posted : 4 Jan, 2011 11:49 PM

Shawn,

You were right about the research part, but she is listed as single, however, states she has a boyfriend.

And she doesn't want children.....

....well I guess I wasted my proverbs scriptures...Lol!

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Posted : 5 Jan, 2011 06:39 AM

I haven't seen any women bashing at all in these forums. I've seen opinions from men on the way they prefer little or no make-up and whether they respect a woman who dresses un-modestly but women bashing? No way! To be honest, I've seen just the opposite.

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Posted : 5 Jan, 2011 08:03 AM

I belive dgrimater is refering to several posts in the Dating Stories and Experinces section.

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